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"ALT INTERPS"
I didn't dream last night, or at least I don't remember my dream. I didn't smoke before bedtime, but I did eat some toast at 1 AM. I slept well, and I arrived early at work today, as I have been doing all week so far.
I found a site that purports to explain the meaning of the dream where your teeth fall out. Someone told me the meaning once and, just like the rules of a card game, I immediately forgot all about it after a few days time.
Thanks for all your feedback, kind people. I wrote about it because it was very profound. I recall quite a number of dreams-- despite my propensity for the yerba buena, I don't always hit the pipe right before I hit the sack. This one, however, made me feel exhausted when I woke up, like I'd lived it. I'm not saying that it was more than a dream-- a dream is all it was... but an important dream nonetheless.
Stop me when I get pretentious. Oh, wait, that was right from the start. I guess I'll just play this one through...
I just had to rationalize it, because otherwise what's the point of writing about your dreams? To rationalize a dream, in my mind, is to understand, dig deeper, ask analytical questions, in order to uncover the emotions behind the symbols. Dreams are symbolic language, and I rely on my dreams for illumination into myself. Dreams are like the Norton Anti-Virus of the organic two-bit processors of our brains-- they detect bugs and glitches in our ethernet of a subconscious.
I took everyone's advice (with variations-- instead of a chocolate bar, for example, I ate toast) and I applied as much as I could from each person. I corresponded with long e-mails and received long replies. There was a lot of effort put into analyzing this dream. The last time I wrote about a dream in my blog, I looked back on it after about six months and was able to understand its significance fully. But if I hadn't written about it and archived it, I would have not been able to reference it and learn from it. Last time, it was a lesson I was glad to have learned. And I think it's no different this time around.
Do not underestimate the importance of your dreams.
I am rarely ever bothered by my dreams, but they will disturb me if I cannot readily explain what my mind's eye beholds. And I am more shocked by the appearance of people with whom I have no closeness.
After I wake up and vividly recall a dream, my first inclination is to think that the dream explains something about myself that I fear. Am I gay? Am I neurotic? Am I a psycho? My gut reaction is to think of it in terms of a nightmare. The more I recall, however, the more the intial horror/disbelief lessens. By the time I have run the dream through my head a few dozen times, it is benign and harmless, or potent and somber... but never something to be feared.
I never really had nightmares. When I was a kid I was more afraid of the things that my waking mind experienced or processed: things under my bed, shadows in my room at night, The Rapture, snails, etc. I've never had dreams about those things. Those would truly be nightmares.
Dream time is a special occasion for me, because when I do remember the dreams, they are like scattered picture puzzles at first, just a messy disorganization of the mind's clutter-- it's a nightly spring clean for the psyche. But during the dream itself, when I am in a REM state and my eyelids are a-flickerin', there is such a certainty that I never ever feel in my waking life... except when I'm on hallucinogens.
I subscribe to the belief that what we think of as "waking life" is really the dream, and what we think of as our "dream world" is the actual reality of our existence. I have no real proof, especially since I can't remember the fucking dreams three-quarters of the time... but that certainty, that's the key, that's the big clue to the next step...
Lately life is but a dream, and I feel like I'm row row rowing a boat, and all of us-- even you -- are in this boat with me. Is it the proverbial Ship Of Fools of many a song, or is it the Love Boat, that amorous legend of the Pacific? Maybe we're kayaking down a cosmic river, because we're all linked up to each other somehow, and we're on the verge of discovering what It is and how It works. Don't you feel like you are hearing the echoes of your recent thoughts whenever you turn on the TV, or speak to a friend, or send an e-mail, or play a CD from years past? Isn't there an eerie sense of synchronicity in the air, a static electricity that hovers and jellies our insides out, the resonant blare of a thousand angel's harmonious trumpets and haarps?
Something's going to happen. Something momentous.
Well, it is an election year. The upcoming debates will be the best reality shows ever, because much like the current crop of reality shows, people think they're watching real people when in fact there's a lot of selective editing and behind-the-scenes choreography and puppeteering going on.
Back to dreams.
The hardest part about recalling dreams is to explain what the images mean to you. One person might see being naked in a dream one way, while I see it in a different light because of my feelings towards nakedness. I don't feel any shame when I'm naked in dreams; in waking life, I am sometimes ashamed because we press the issue of modesty and privacy so much in this society. But I have been tempted to hang out nudists because a part of me feels that the idea of clothing can be absurd sometimes. That the idea of hanging out with naked people in a non-sexual way gets guffaws from "normal" folk is, to me, the height of absurdity.
Likewise, my description of a kid on the roof is a bit misleading-- the "kid" was taller than my dream self, and stockier to boot. He seemed like a kid, though, in that way that you know that you are dealing with someone who hasn't been around long enough to command any respect, despite their size. That's why I interpret that scene to have relevance to my struggles with adversaries-- because the very people who represent that role in my life make me feel like that, like I have no respect and therefore no reason to fear them.
I don't shy away from the violence or sexual content of my dreams. What chills me is seeing people as symbols. I know that a dream about killing my brother doesn't mean I want to kill my brother necessarily, but the image is still shocking to me because I feel (in my waking life once again) that I don't have any strong feelings about fratricide.
But then again, I see people as symbols in my writing. In fiction, if you have a villain versus a hero, then you automatically have symbols for good and evil, whether you want to convey that message or not. What one decides to do with these symbols in a plot speaks volumes about one's own motivations and character. Even if one's intention is to not (as Vonnegut once said) put on "puppet plays", the public at large or the folks who read your stuff are gpoing to assign their own symbols to it.
That's why writing is a craft. I intentionally create characters to resist encoding, so that people are forced to accept a character that is not a cipher nor a blank canvas upon which we project our fantasies. If there's one thing I spend much detail on above all else, it's a character's resistance to alternate interpretations.
Of course, others will find "alt interps", no matter what I do. But that's where the fun begins, because I learn just as much about a person giving feedback as I do from the feedback itself. Since I designed certain aspects of my writing to be distortion-proof, I like to see how readers hack into my codes and find ways to impose values upon them that don't exist.
In other words, I invite people to read into my words what they will, because I know in my heart and in my head why each word exists on the page.
Ever find an old poem or writing assignment from school and read it and think "What was going on at the time that I wrote this?" With very few exceptions, I can apply that to almost everything I've ever written. I usually can decipher the code because I wrote the code. Even if names and dates fail me, I usually remember the mood.
That's what dreams are all about, by the way-- moods. Colors, visions, moods. The way certain stimuli make you feel. The sum total of sensory intake.
Dreams are the brain's poems, scribbled down on bar napkins and found in the laundry just before a wash.
Dreams are sunflower seed casings, leaving salty remnants on the tip of the tongue as you discard the rest.
I quote once again from Mr. Wonka:
"We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
I didn't dream last night, or at least I don't remember my dream. I didn't smoke before bedtime, but I did eat some toast at 1 AM. I slept well, and I arrived early at work today, as I have been doing all week so far.
I found a site that purports to explain the meaning of the dream where your teeth fall out. Someone told me the meaning once and, just like the rules of a card game, I immediately forgot all about it after a few days time.
Thanks for all your feedback, kind people. I wrote about it because it was very profound. I recall quite a number of dreams-- despite my propensity for the yerba buena, I don't always hit the pipe right before I hit the sack. This one, however, made me feel exhausted when I woke up, like I'd lived it. I'm not saying that it was more than a dream-- a dream is all it was... but an important dream nonetheless.
Stop me when I get pretentious. Oh, wait, that was right from the start. I guess I'll just play this one through...
I just had to rationalize it, because otherwise what's the point of writing about your dreams? To rationalize a dream, in my mind, is to understand, dig deeper, ask analytical questions, in order to uncover the emotions behind the symbols. Dreams are symbolic language, and I rely on my dreams for illumination into myself. Dreams are like the Norton Anti-Virus of the organic two-bit processors of our brains-- they detect bugs and glitches in our ethernet of a subconscious.
I took everyone's advice (with variations-- instead of a chocolate bar, for example, I ate toast) and I applied as much as I could from each person. I corresponded with long e-mails and received long replies. There was a lot of effort put into analyzing this dream. The last time I wrote about a dream in my blog, I looked back on it after about six months and was able to understand its significance fully. But if I hadn't written about it and archived it, I would have not been able to reference it and learn from it. Last time, it was a lesson I was glad to have learned. And I think it's no different this time around.
Do not underestimate the importance of your dreams.
I am rarely ever bothered by my dreams, but they will disturb me if I cannot readily explain what my mind's eye beholds. And I am more shocked by the appearance of people with whom I have no closeness.
After I wake up and vividly recall a dream, my first inclination is to think that the dream explains something about myself that I fear. Am I gay? Am I neurotic? Am I a psycho? My gut reaction is to think of it in terms of a nightmare. The more I recall, however, the more the intial horror/disbelief lessens. By the time I have run the dream through my head a few dozen times, it is benign and harmless, or potent and somber... but never something to be feared.
I never really had nightmares. When I was a kid I was more afraid of the things that my waking mind experienced or processed: things under my bed, shadows in my room at night, The Rapture, snails, etc. I've never had dreams about those things. Those would truly be nightmares.
Dream time is a special occasion for me, because when I do remember the dreams, they are like scattered picture puzzles at first, just a messy disorganization of the mind's clutter-- it's a nightly spring clean for the psyche. But during the dream itself, when I am in a REM state and my eyelids are a-flickerin', there is such a certainty that I never ever feel in my waking life... except when I'm on hallucinogens.
I subscribe to the belief that what we think of as "waking life" is really the dream, and what we think of as our "dream world" is the actual reality of our existence. I have no real proof, especially since I can't remember the fucking dreams three-quarters of the time... but that certainty, that's the key, that's the big clue to the next step...
Lately life is but a dream, and I feel like I'm row row rowing a boat, and all of us-- even you -- are in this boat with me. Is it the proverbial Ship Of Fools of many a song, or is it the Love Boat, that amorous legend of the Pacific? Maybe we're kayaking down a cosmic river, because we're all linked up to each other somehow, and we're on the verge of discovering what It is and how It works. Don't you feel like you are hearing the echoes of your recent thoughts whenever you turn on the TV, or speak to a friend, or send an e-mail, or play a CD from years past? Isn't there an eerie sense of synchronicity in the air, a static electricity that hovers and jellies our insides out, the resonant blare of a thousand angel's harmonious trumpets and haarps?
Something's going to happen. Something momentous.
Well, it is an election year. The upcoming debates will be the best reality shows ever, because much like the current crop of reality shows, people think they're watching real people when in fact there's a lot of selective editing and behind-the-scenes choreography and puppeteering going on.
Back to dreams.
The hardest part about recalling dreams is to explain what the images mean to you. One person might see being naked in a dream one way, while I see it in a different light because of my feelings towards nakedness. I don't feel any shame when I'm naked in dreams; in waking life, I am sometimes ashamed because we press the issue of modesty and privacy so much in this society. But I have been tempted to hang out nudists because a part of me feels that the idea of clothing can be absurd sometimes. That the idea of hanging out with naked people in a non-sexual way gets guffaws from "normal" folk is, to me, the height of absurdity.
Likewise, my description of a kid on the roof is a bit misleading-- the "kid" was taller than my dream self, and stockier to boot. He seemed like a kid, though, in that way that you know that you are dealing with someone who hasn't been around long enough to command any respect, despite their size. That's why I interpret that scene to have relevance to my struggles with adversaries-- because the very people who represent that role in my life make me feel like that, like I have no respect and therefore no reason to fear them.
I don't shy away from the violence or sexual content of my dreams. What chills me is seeing people as symbols. I know that a dream about killing my brother doesn't mean I want to kill my brother necessarily, but the image is still shocking to me because I feel (in my waking life once again) that I don't have any strong feelings about fratricide.
But then again, I see people as symbols in my writing. In fiction, if you have a villain versus a hero, then you automatically have symbols for good and evil, whether you want to convey that message or not. What one decides to do with these symbols in a plot speaks volumes about one's own motivations and character. Even if one's intention is to not (as Vonnegut once said) put on "puppet plays", the public at large or the folks who read your stuff are gpoing to assign their own symbols to it.
That's why writing is a craft. I intentionally create characters to resist encoding, so that people are forced to accept a character that is not a cipher nor a blank canvas upon which we project our fantasies. If there's one thing I spend much detail on above all else, it's a character's resistance to alternate interpretations.
Of course, others will find "alt interps", no matter what I do. But that's where the fun begins, because I learn just as much about a person giving feedback as I do from the feedback itself. Since I designed certain aspects of my writing to be distortion-proof, I like to see how readers hack into my codes and find ways to impose values upon them that don't exist.
In other words, I invite people to read into my words what they will, because I know in my heart and in my head why each word exists on the page.
Ever find an old poem or writing assignment from school and read it and think "What was going on at the time that I wrote this?" With very few exceptions, I can apply that to almost everything I've ever written. I usually can decipher the code because I wrote the code. Even if names and dates fail me, I usually remember the mood.
That's what dreams are all about, by the way-- moods. Colors, visions, moods. The way certain stimuli make you feel. The sum total of sensory intake.
Dreams are the brain's poems, scribbled down on bar napkins and found in the laundry just before a wash.
Dreams are sunflower seed casings, leaving salty remnants on the tip of the tongue as you discard the rest.
I quote once again from Mr. Wonka:
"We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
posted by J Drawz at
5:42 PM
Thursday, March 25, 2004
MY LIFE AS A CRAIGSLIST TROLL
Hello, CL Rant and Ravers!
Except for that one post about the FCC (which was forwarded to me by a co-worker who regularly accesses CL RnR), I have been away all day since my first posts earlier today.
So here I am checking in at 6:30pm like I promised, and WHOA NELLY!
So many posts from people with no lives.
Where should I start?
"PEOPLE!!!! PLEASE!!! CAN WE IGNORE THIS DUMBASS VALLEY BOY!?!?!?!?!?!?"
Evidently not. You especially seem to be unable to get me out of your head... dunce.
"You’re like a naughty boy who has learned a new bad word. You beg for attention because your dad no longer cornholes you since you’re all growns up. No doubt you miss his hot whisky breath in your adolescent ear, and that’s why you’re here demanding attention. If you like, I’ll send some of the hombres from my construction company to come over and push your shit for old times sake.
Herbert Versmells"
And from the way you write, Herbert, it sounds like you are speaking from personal experience. Next?
"Heres a story, of a man named Valley
Who was bringing up the angry CLers...
All of them got all pissed off (like their mother)
and some dude got called a coward
And thats the way we bacame the Valley bunch
The Vaaaaaley bunch, the Valley bunch...
Thats the waaaaay we becaaaaame the VALLEY BUNCH!"
HA HA HA HA HA!! That was genuinely funny and creative. Obviously not written by a regular.
"Why do you care so ridiculously much what people think of you?"
I don't. Isn't it obvious that I think most people on this board are dunces? Why should I care what a dunce thinks?
"Why IS IT that you don't just break all these wacky rules and give us your real name on this anonymous board?"
I could ask the same of you. Why don't YOU give us your real name, Coward Boy?
"What does your supervisor think of you embezzling the company's resources as you pick daily fights with everyone at every chance you get?"
I forward these replies to him. He loves it. He thinks I'm a master at manipulating stupid people. He's right.
"Valley Boy, how many enemies have you amassed during your extended lifetime?"
Too many to list, and many of them far worthier opponents than you.
"Why do you continue to make trouble?"
Because I am Valley Boy.
"How is it that not everyone is bored out of their minds when it comes to your immature rants and realize that the best way to get rid of you is to IGNORE you??"
I've been asking that question for some time. You're the one who keeps this going, Coward Boy. But you won't learn your lesson, so I keep bringing it to you.
"YOU'RE ALL DUNCES!! HA HA - VALLEY BOY"
Now THAT'S a sign that you've made an impact-- when people pretend to write in your name. I wish I could take credit for that one, but I can't... although I have written posts like that many times before.
"Coward Valley Boy, your writing doth stink like a pile of rotten feet."
Right... and your prose is soooooooo much better. "A pile of rotten feet"? You really are a dunce!
"Stop with your backpedaling! I told you to either shut up and stop picking your trademark chicken-assed fights OR give up your real name.You're the one who was boasting that you "always"? use your 'handle'. So the fuck what?! Anyone can do that! Why don't you do something at least half-baked and tell us your REAL NAME?
You little coward, don't start something you won't be able to finish. I guess your poor mommy never taught you anything besides how to BEND OVER AND WHINE...."
It's not like you have given us YOUR real name. So I really don't see why I should give you mine. In terms of debating skill, you rank right up there with Forrest Gump. I make mincemeat of you in every post. And you got mad because I posted a pic of you that showed everyone what a chickenshit you are. WHY DON'T YOU ADMIT THAT YOU'RE NO MATCH FOR ME?
"Ooohhh, that Valley Boy! Gets me all hot and bothered! Oh wait, thats the clamp...crap, guess I need some new ointment! Anyway, valley boy you rock my infested world!"
Thanks. Glad to oblige.
"I COULD KILL YOU WITHOUT EVEN TRYING YOU MORON. OF COURSE YOU WOULD SAY SOMETHING ABOUT BENDING OVER BECAUSE YOU'RE SO USED TO IT. YOU'RE A DUNCE! YOU'RE ALL DUNCES!! HA HA KEEP IT COMING!-- VALLEY BOY"
Yet another person pretending to be me. I'm a bona fide sensation! Pretty soon, people will be asking for the REAL Valley Boy to please stand up. Once again, I can't take credit for something I didn't write.
"KILL YOU WITHOUT EVEN TRYING".........Cowardly Valley Boy, even for you, that's TOO LAME.You just committed a premeditation of murder or established a new low for yourself of making girlish threats against any number of people (doctors, lawyers, Indian Chiefs, police officers, and, oh yes, even career psychos) who could hunt you down to..."defend himself.
YOU ARE A WORHTLESS, PUSSY-FACED MORON.
Cowardly Valley Boy, seeing as how common sense and courtesy is totally foreign to you... FEAR really is your best friend. But I bet you're too stupid to shut up now while you still can.
SEE YOU AT THE FREE CLINIC. :)"
Like I said, I didn't write that one about killing morons. You were right, Real Coward Boy-- it's too lame a sentiment for me to have written. And you use the same jokes about free clinics as you have in other posts-- obviously, again, you speak from personal experience.
"WoW! You're getting to be a true Master of the Backpedal.........like you expect us to believe you haven't been here ALL FUCKING DAY!!!!
Now, go cry some more over your crayon-sized cock."
As this long list of replies shows, YOU have been the one on this board all day. Anyone with half a brain can see it. This reply was in response to someone else's post about the FCC and freedom of speech. Free speech means that you have a right to say what you want, no matter how stupid it is. And when it comes to stupidity, you take the cake.
"I don't know who you are, but I'm the real Valley Boy. You're nothing more than a DUNCE! Stupid, imposter DUNCE!- VALLEY BOY"
This is getting tiresome. I'd better finish this up before I stay past my work shift. But it's worth it to keep these assholes off of this board.
"To the girl seeking an abortion, YOU'RE A F-CKING DUNCE!!- Valley Boy"
If I was as low-class as them, I'd give out their real names and e-mail addresses. But instead, I'll fight them on this board until they get the hint.
I could do this all day. I type 60 wpm, so it didn't take long to compile this list. It doesn't waste company time, because I type so fast. But my bosses get a kick out of how I get so many people to reply to my posts.
By the way: anyone on CL who has ever replied to a post by "The Valley" (my original handle) knows what my real name is, because I most likely e-mailed you back with an intelligent reply. Therefore, Coward Boy, if you want my real name, why don't you write to Mark Hopkins, or any number of people who have commented positively on my posts in the past? I know why-- because you're full of shit, and yet you think you can compete with me. Dream on.
Any more takers?
Hello, CL Rant and Ravers!
Except for that one post about the FCC (which was forwarded to me by a co-worker who regularly accesses CL RnR), I have been away all day since my first posts earlier today.
So here I am checking in at 6:30pm like I promised, and WHOA NELLY!
So many posts from people with no lives.
Where should I start?
"PEOPLE!!!! PLEASE!!! CAN WE IGNORE THIS DUMBASS VALLEY BOY!?!?!?!?!?!?"
Evidently not. You especially seem to be unable to get me out of your head... dunce.
"You’re like a naughty boy who has learned a new bad word. You beg for attention because your dad no longer cornholes you since you’re all growns up. No doubt you miss his hot whisky breath in your adolescent ear, and that’s why you’re here demanding attention. If you like, I’ll send some of the hombres from my construction company to come over and push your shit for old times sake.
Herbert Versmells"
And from the way you write, Herbert, it sounds like you are speaking from personal experience. Next?
"Heres a story, of a man named Valley
Who was bringing up the angry CLers...
All of them got all pissed off (like their mother)
and some dude got called a coward
And thats the way we bacame the Valley bunch
The Vaaaaaley bunch, the Valley bunch...
Thats the waaaaay we becaaaaame the VALLEY BUNCH!"
HA HA HA HA HA!! That was genuinely funny and creative. Obviously not written by a regular.
"Why do you care so ridiculously much what people think of you?"
I don't. Isn't it obvious that I think most people on this board are dunces? Why should I care what a dunce thinks?
"Why IS IT that you don't just break all these wacky rules and give us your real name on this anonymous board?"
I could ask the same of you. Why don't YOU give us your real name, Coward Boy?
"What does your supervisor think of you embezzling the company's resources as you pick daily fights with everyone at every chance you get?"
I forward these replies to him. He loves it. He thinks I'm a master at manipulating stupid people. He's right.
"Valley Boy, how many enemies have you amassed during your extended lifetime?"
Too many to list, and many of them far worthier opponents than you.
"Why do you continue to make trouble?"
Because I am Valley Boy.
"How is it that not everyone is bored out of their minds when it comes to your immature rants and realize that the best way to get rid of you is to IGNORE you??"
I've been asking that question for some time. You're the one who keeps this going, Coward Boy. But you won't learn your lesson, so I keep bringing it to you.
"YOU'RE ALL DUNCES!! HA HA - VALLEY BOY"
Now THAT'S a sign that you've made an impact-- when people pretend to write in your name. I wish I could take credit for that one, but I can't... although I have written posts like that many times before.
"Coward Valley Boy, your writing doth stink like a pile of rotten feet."
Right... and your prose is soooooooo much better. "A pile of rotten feet"? You really are a dunce!
"Stop with your backpedaling! I told you to either shut up and stop picking your trademark chicken-assed fights OR give up your real name.You're the one who was boasting that you "always"? use your 'handle'. So the fuck what?! Anyone can do that! Why don't you do something at least half-baked and tell us your REAL NAME?
You little coward, don't start something you won't be able to finish. I guess your poor mommy never taught you anything besides how to BEND OVER AND WHINE...."
It's not like you have given us YOUR real name. So I really don't see why I should give you mine. In terms of debating skill, you rank right up there with Forrest Gump. I make mincemeat of you in every post. And you got mad because I posted a pic of you that showed everyone what a chickenshit you are. WHY DON'T YOU ADMIT THAT YOU'RE NO MATCH FOR ME?
"Ooohhh, that Valley Boy! Gets me all hot and bothered! Oh wait, thats the clamp...crap, guess I need some new ointment! Anyway, valley boy you rock my infested world!"
Thanks. Glad to oblige.
"I COULD KILL YOU WITHOUT EVEN TRYING YOU MORON. OF COURSE YOU WOULD SAY SOMETHING ABOUT BENDING OVER BECAUSE YOU'RE SO USED TO IT. YOU'RE A DUNCE! YOU'RE ALL DUNCES!! HA HA KEEP IT COMING!-- VALLEY BOY"
Yet another person pretending to be me. I'm a bona fide sensation! Pretty soon, people will be asking for the REAL Valley Boy to please stand up. Once again, I can't take credit for something I didn't write.
"KILL YOU WITHOUT EVEN TRYING".........Cowardly Valley Boy, even for you, that's TOO LAME.You just committed a premeditation of murder or established a new low for yourself of making girlish threats against any number of people (doctors, lawyers, Indian Chiefs, police officers, and, oh yes, even career psychos) who could hunt you down to..."defend himself.
YOU ARE A WORHTLESS, PUSSY-FACED MORON.
Cowardly Valley Boy, seeing as how common sense and courtesy is totally foreign to you... FEAR really is your best friend. But I bet you're too stupid to shut up now while you still can.
SEE YOU AT THE FREE CLINIC. :)"
Like I said, I didn't write that one about killing morons. You were right, Real Coward Boy-- it's too lame a sentiment for me to have written. And you use the same jokes about free clinics as you have in other posts-- obviously, again, you speak from personal experience.
"WoW! You're getting to be a true Master of the Backpedal.........like you expect us to believe you haven't been here ALL FUCKING DAY!!!!
Now, go cry some more over your crayon-sized cock."
As this long list of replies shows, YOU have been the one on this board all day. Anyone with half a brain can see it. This reply was in response to someone else's post about the FCC and freedom of speech. Free speech means that you have a right to say what you want, no matter how stupid it is. And when it comes to stupidity, you take the cake.
"I don't know who you are, but I'm the real Valley Boy. You're nothing more than a DUNCE! Stupid, imposter DUNCE!- VALLEY BOY"
This is getting tiresome. I'd better finish this up before I stay past my work shift. But it's worth it to keep these assholes off of this board.
"To the girl seeking an abortion, YOU'RE A F-CKING DUNCE!!- Valley Boy"
If I was as low-class as them, I'd give out their real names and e-mail addresses. But instead, I'll fight them on this board until they get the hint.
I could do this all day. I type 60 wpm, so it didn't take long to compile this list. It doesn't waste company time, because I type so fast. But my bosses get a kick out of how I get so many people to reply to my posts.
By the way: anyone on CL who has ever replied to a post by "The Valley" (my original handle) knows what my real name is, because I most likely e-mailed you back with an intelligent reply. Therefore, Coward Boy, if you want my real name, why don't you write to Mark Hopkins, or any number of people who have commented positively on my posts in the past? I know why-- because you're full of shit, and yet you think you can compete with me. Dream on.
Any more takers?
posted by J Drawz at
5:11 PM
Thursday, December 18, 2003
Have you ever been curious as to what goes on during Dr. Sex' IM sessions? Well, here's your chance to take a peek into the weird wild and woolly world of sex therapy. The following transcripts are REAL-- names and places have been edited and changed, but for the most part the dialogues are REAL and have not been doctored (pardon the pun). The patients are REAL and the advice is REAL.
And now...
INSTANT MESSENGER EXCHANGES
mcginty122: hello darling
boo: hello dear
mcginty122: how art thou?
boo: good
boo: I just ate at Rubios and it didnt feel like staying in me
mcginty122: are you feeling sick?
boo: no
boo: not anymore
mcginty122: gud
boo: yes
boo: i missed you what took you so long
mcginty122: sorry-- i can log in after you get back from lunch-- lately i've been getting sweated about IM
boo: oh ok
mcginty122: after 12 it's all clear but you never get back until 1pm
boo: im still your friend
mcginty122: thank u
mcginty122: im still your friend too
boo: can i ask you a gross ?
mcginty122: yes
boo: when you have runny poop
boo: what causes that
mcginty122: alcohol consumption
boo: really?
mcginty122: also: drinking coffee without having breakfast
boo: bingo
boo: on both counts
mcginty122: ewwww
boo: hahah
boo: yes
boo: i miss C
mcginty122: when do you see him next?
boo: how can you be charged with 7 counts of the same thing
boo: tommorrow
mcginty122: who's been charged?
boo: MJ
mcginty122: must be 7 different occasions
boo: oho
mcginty122: "Billie Jean is not my lover..."
boo: haha
boo: im glad we are friends
mcginty122: you make me blush
boo: no
boo: so what did you do last night
boo: did you watch OC'
mcginty122: no, i had to go out with my homeboy H and his friend I
mcginty122: we went to see some band at the El Rey
boo: were they good
mcginty122: they were ok
mcginty122: nothing to write home about
boo: oh
boo: how did you make plans with R
mcginty122: "I'm going to see a movie on Friday, let's go together" and she said "cool"
boo: good
boo: grab a drink after the movie
mcginty122: he he he
boo: for real
mcginty122: she likes hard alcohol, not beer- just like me... but we will probably just get stoned
boo: hang with her tonight
mcginty122: i will, for a little while-- I have to hang with my friend A because I promised her I would
boo: i want to see a picture of her
mcginty122: if i can find one
boo: ok
mcginty122: she's cute
boo: I bet
boo: she is white?
mcginty122: yes
mcginty122: blonde
boo: oh
mcginty122: short
mcginty122: nice figure
boo: stoner
boo: like you
mcginty122: oh yeah
mcginty122: and i think she is probably a wild cat in the sack, but that remains to be seen
boo: mmmm sex
boo: im an addict
mcginty122: so am i
mcginty122: but i've been cold turkey for some time
boo: poor C
mcginty122: what do you mean?
boo: i always want it
boo: from him
mcginty122: don't pity him
boo: he told me I was a nympho
mcginty122: you are
mcginty122: i can tell
boo: ho
boo: how
mcginty122: i just can tell-- don't ask me how I know, I just do
boo: ok
boo: i want to hurry and see C before my period comes
mcginty122: being in the red makes you hornier, no?
boo: yeah
mcginty122: see, i know what I'm talking about
boo: yes
boo: im late
mcginty122: for what?
boo: period
mcginty122: how late?
boo: a day or two
boo: no big deal
mcginty122: right-- if it's over 2 weeks late, then you worry
boo: right
boo: hi
mcginty122: hello
boo: he
boo: how many inches would two fists be
mcginty122: ?
mcginty122: are you talking length or circumference?
boo: length
mcginty122: two balled up fists side-by-side?
boo: on top of eachother
mcginty122: depends on the size of the hands-- I'd say between 10 and 12 inches-- is that what C be packin?
boo: yes
mcginty122: has he tagged you in the ass yet?
boo: nope
mcginty122: he will
boo: still his fingers
mcginty122: he's getting your ass warmed up for the big 10 incher
mcginty122: it takes a while to get the sphincter loose
boo: hahah really?
mcginty122: yep
mcginty122: mark my words
boo: do you have to be lying on yoru stomach for it to happen?
mcginty122: no
boo: can you be on your back
mcginty122: yes
mcginty122: there's no 'right' way to do it
mcginty122: you just do it
boo: one night I was really wet and he said it prob would have gone in just fine
mcginty122: he he he
mcginty122: have you ever had 10 inches of anything going up your ass?
boo: how would it have
boo: NO
mcginty122: you're going to be in for a nice surprise...
boo: it will hurt
mcginty122: maybe
boo: or feel good?
mcginty122: maybe
mcginty122: depends on you
mcginty122: that's why you need to go out and get a dildo
mcginty122: practice
boo: no way
mcginty122: get ready for the anal invasion
mcginty122: he will appreciate it
boo: i can tell him to stop on his way in if it hurts
boo: do you go in and out when you put it in
mcginty122: duh
mcginty122: of course-- it doesn't just sit there, lying still
boo: the tip hurts the worst?
mcginty122: i've never had anything up there, i don't know
boo: i know
mcginty122: you'd better buy a butt plug
boo: ill ask C he has done it with both his exes
mcginty122: probably-- guys with porno-size dicks usually like it anal because it's tighter-- just ask Kobe Bryant
boo: really
boo: i thinkhe is into it
mcginty122: think about it
mcginty122: he's getting you primed and prepped
mcginty122: it starts with a finger
mcginty122: then two
mcginty122: then three
boo: it has al;ready been 2
mcginty122: once you work your way up to three, your ass is his
mcginty122: literally
mcginty122: you might not be able to walk correctly for a day or two
mcginty122: i mean, 10 to 12 inches is pretty huge
mcginty122: what's the diameter of his cock?
boo: i dont knoe
mcginty122: how thick around is it?
boo: know
boo: how do i figure that out
mcginty122: you've held it, right?
boo: yes
boo: of course
mcginty122: does your hand go around it or not?
boo: umm
mcginty122: when you grip it, do your fingers touch your thumb?
boo: i cant touch my fingers
mcginty122: oh boy
boo: no
boo: shit
boo: I keep telling him he is huge and he doesnt beleive me
boo: he said it has shrunk
mcginty122: as you get older, the size goes down a tad
mcginty122: just a tad
boo: oh
boo: ewww
mcginty122: but your asshole is going to be gaping when he's done with you
boo: guess what happened
mcginty122: what?
boo: will it bleed
mcginty122: if he's not careful
mcginty122: what happened?
boo: a little while ago
boo: M called(C's ex remember)
boo: i told you about her right
boo: not babies mama
boo: hellooooooo
mcginty122: i'm here-- keep going
mcginty122: continue
boo: well she called and left him a message saying
boo: hi C, i cant beleive you didnt pick up the phone it is a first but i just want to tell you im moving out there in less than a year so keep that in the back of your head
mcginty122: she wants that big dick back
boo: what does that mean
mcginty122: you're going to have to fight her over that rattlesnake
boo: yeah but she is taller she would beat me
boo: what do I do
boo: she cant have him he is mine
mcginty122: maybe the two of you can share his cock-- i'm sure C would love that
boo: umm no
mcginty122: if he asked you to, would you have a 3some with him and her?
boo: hell no
boo: i would leave him if he asked me
mcginty122: but it's not like he doesn't have enough to go around
mcginty122: it's Christmas time
mcginty122: the season for sharing
boo: no
mcginty122: i get it-- you want it all for yourself
boo: yes
mcginty122: dick greed
boo: no i like him so much I would be so sad if he was chesating
boo: im so scared he will end up back with her
mcginty122: how old id their kid?
boo: whose kid
boo: she doesnt have a kid
mcginty122: who's the baby mama?
boo: L
boo: the baby is due in 3 weeks
mcginty122: you know Tom Leykis?
boo: yeah
mcginty122: call him and tell him about your situation-- he'll tell you to lose C
boo: he will
boo: why
mcginty122: he says that guys who date single mothers are doomed from the start, adn the same applies to single fathers as well.
boo: so im doomed b/c C is going to be a dad
mcginty122: with someone else's kid
mcginty122: someone has to lose out-- eitrher you, the mom, or the kid
mcginty122: who do you think will be the one to lose out the most?
boo: well it will be the babies mama
boo: and the kid
mcginty122: why do you think that?
boo: he cant stand L
boo: babies mama
boo: im scared though once baby comes everything will change
mcginty122: in the view of the COURTS, he's tied to her until that kid turns 18. She will most likely get custody, so he will have to pay for that kid, unless he becomes a deadbeat dad
mcginty122: if she is deemed 'unfit' then he gets custody but she will get visitation rights
boo: he'll pay
mcginty122: and then some
mcginty122: she will always be in the picture
boo: i know
mcginty122: if you can deal with that, then you are OK
boo: i am not threatened by her
boo: I mean im sure i might get jelous
boo: but it is M that bugs me
mcginty122: how long do you see yourself being with him?
boo: ?
mcginty122: do you think you ands C will date for years?
mcginty122: months?
mcginty122: weeks?
boo: hopefully years
boo: if it stays like this
mcginty122: more power to you
boo: who knows
boo: im prob stupid
mcginty122: NO, YOU'RE JUST LOOKING FOR LOVE
boo: yes
mcginty122: we all are
boo: aww he jsut called
boo: to tell me he was thinking of me
boo: ok
boo: i need your help
mcginty122: with what?
boo: I need you to write me one of yoru master paices
mcginty122: why?
boo: b/c you write pretty
mcginty122: what do you want me to write?
boo: a letter
mcginty122: saying what?
boo: how much I have fallen for C and it makes no sense and i love ebing with him and i get excited to see him and i smile
mcginty122: you know, if C ever found out that I was writing these things, he'd be pissed
boo: yeha well if he found out i kissed B when we first started dating he would be pissed
mcginty122: love letters from a guy? he'd think i was a fag
boo: no
mcginty122: it's like if he was having phone sex with a guy and thought it was a girl-- if he knew the truth he'd be upset
boo: i know you are straight
mcginty122: i know that too, but does he?
boo: he wont know
mcginty122: it'll come out someday
mcginty122: it always does, on accident
boo: no
boo: come on
boo: i cheated on him and it will never come out
mcginty122: what does it tell you that I can write better love odes to him than you can?
mcginty122: i mean, if you really love him, you'd find the words
mcginty122: right?
(pause)
boo's status is now "Available" (12/18/2003 2:31 PM)
boo: sorry
boo: well
mcginty122: its ok
boo: please
mcginty122: please what?
boo: write me the love letter
mcginty122: sorry, i feel all weird about it now
boo: cmom
boo: cmon for me I would od it for you
mcginty122: hahaha-- I don't need other people to write for me
mcginty122: i don't mean to be mean
boo: jsut please
mcginty122: i can't fight all of your battles for you
mcginty122: seriously
mcginty122: i love you and all, but put yourself in my shoes
mcginty122: for one second
boo: your not gay
mcginty122: that's not the issue
mcginty122: i don't care about that
boo: you write more eloquently
mcginty122: the point is, I want you for myself and yet I'm helping this guy who has kids all over the globe score with you
boo: all over the globe
boo: hahahahhahaa
mcginty122: and on other planets
boo: you dont want me you have R
mcginty122: all over the known galaxy
boo: puhlease just one on the way
mcginty122: what do i get out of it?
boo: my love
mcginty122: oh yeah, your love-- the same love you give to C
boo: the same you wanna give to R
mcginty122: yeah, but the diffrence is that if i want to write her a love poem, i use my own words
mcginty122: it makes it more special
boo: i know but please
mcginty122: he loves you-- anything you write will be fine
boo: jdsut this once Ill never ask you again
mcginty122: you WILL ask me again
boo: nope
mcginty122: don't you see that you're, in essence, LYING to C by asking me to do this?
boo: no im not
mcginty122: It's not from your heart
boo: yes it is
mcginty122: no, it's from MY heart
mcginty122: not yours
mcginty122: it's like taking a test-- if i answer all of your questions for you, did you really pass?
boo: fuck ok
boo: god
boo: are you my dad
mcginty122: i'm sorry, sweetie, but i can't hold your hand on this one
boo: i dont want you too
mcginty122: write him a letter and I'll check it for spelling
boo: hahahha
boo: i dont knwo how to start it
mcginty122: start by describing what he means to you
boo: what if he laughs
mcginty122: he won't, if he wants to tap that ass later
boo: and doesnt feel the same way
boo: im not seeing him till tommorrow
mcginty122: yeah right-- get real, he is sprung on you and you know it
boo: no
mcginty122: write hima sexy letter about how you want to put your hands around his cobra dick
boo: no
boo: im stuck im just staring
mcginty122: sexy letters work just as well
boo: at the screen
mcginty122: he'll start drooling
mcginty122: be naughty
boo: ok give me suggestions
boo: he'll think im a whore
mcginty122: no he won't-- he'll think you are super sexy
mcginty122: i'm a guy, trust me on this
mcginty122: all guys like it when their girls get nasty on them
mcginty122: unless they are gay
boo: C-
HI. Im at work very bored and im glad you jsut called becasue I was going to call you. The blood on my mouth this morning was from my chapped lips, gross huh? So it is Thursday and I wish it was Friday or yesterday b/c that means I would get to see you. I love seeing you. I love everything about our time together.
boo: now what
mcginty122: cut the part about the bloody mouth please
boo: heheh
boo: ok
boo: tell him things i love about him?
mcginty122: talk about the last time you two had sex-- describe how you felt when he did certain things to you
mcginty122: seriously, no joke
boo: sex will come later in the letter
mcginty122: fine, but don't forget to mention it
boo: first nice stuff
boo: i wont
boo: hello
mcginty122: yes?
boo: give me more suggestions
boo: i feel cheesy
boo: i put I lvoe how you make me laugh
mcginty122: that's good-- keep that train of thought going
boo: what is my next sentence
mcginty122: ugh
mcginty122: did you pass English at all?
boo: yes
boo: i went to NYU
mcginty122: and yet you're asking me, a guy who never went to college, how to write
boo: yeah
mcginty122: i'm glad i never went to college then
mcginty122: ok-- tell him that you think about him at certain moments of the day, then give an example
boo: i htink about him constatly
mcginty122: then SAY IT
boo: C-
HI. Im at work very bored and im glad you jsut called becasue I was going to call you. So it is Thursday and I wish it was Friday or yesterday b/c that means I would get to see you. I love seeing you. I love everything about our time together. Everything jsut kinda of stops when im with you and than when im not I find myself totally absorbed int houghts about you.
mcginty122: So far so good-- now get to the sex
boo: ok help me segway
mcginty122: you're already set-up-- just tell him about your fantasies when you think about him, how you want it all the time
boo: I think about how much fun I have with you and I run the times we have had over and over in my head.
boo: ok now
mcginty122: c'mon, sex it up
mcginty122: it won't be whore-ish i promise
boo: well write me a seway sentence
mcginty122: he'll fuck the living daylights out of you so hard after reading it
boo: ok give me some dirty sentences
mcginty122: Jesus Christ, I'm starting to think that he doesn't even exist
mcginty122: don't you ever talk dirty to him?
boo: hah
boo: ill send you a pic
mcginty122: while you're doing it?
mcginty122: surely you can come up with SOMETHING
boo: im too shy
mcginty122: bullshit!
boo: please
mcginty122: anything I say you will say "ewwww"
boo: he wont like a sex letter
mcginty122: YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE NO CLUE AS TO WHAT MEN THINK ABOUT ALL DAY LONG IF YOU THINK HE WON'T LIKE A SEX LETTER
mcginty122: come one, boo-- you can do this
mcginty122: i believe in you
mcginty122: go boo! go boo! go boo!
mcginty122: YAY!!!!
boo: somthing like i think about how everything weith you is different even the sex
mcginty122: that's a start-- keep it going
boo: ok
boo: I have never wanted someone sexually like I want you
boo: good?
mcginty122: yes, very
boo: ok now what
boo: give me a sentence
mcginty122: FINE-- since I'm going to lunch right now, I will give you ONE sentence-- are you ready?
boo: hah
boo: yes but then you got to coem back and read my letter
mcginty122: ok
mcginty122: here it is
mcginty122: "I can't stop thinking about the other night, how I could barely hold you in my hands... whatever you want me to do, I will do it, because i can't keep my hands off of you"
mcginty122: how's that?
boo: no
mcginty122: see? i knew you would be a prude about it
boo: hahah
mcginty122: I'll be back in an hour, ok?
boo: hurry
mcginty122: sure
boo: i love you
mcginty122: yeah yeah, i love you too...
boo: hey!
mcginty122 is now "Logged off"(12/18/2003 3:31 PM)
And now...
INSTANT MESSENGER EXCHANGES
mcginty122: hello darling
boo: hello dear
mcginty122: how art thou?
boo: good
boo: I just ate at Rubios and it didnt feel like staying in me
mcginty122: are you feeling sick?
boo: no
boo: not anymore
mcginty122: gud
boo: yes
boo: i missed you what took you so long
mcginty122: sorry-- i can log in after you get back from lunch-- lately i've been getting sweated about IM
boo: oh ok
mcginty122: after 12 it's all clear but you never get back until 1pm
boo: im still your friend
mcginty122: thank u
mcginty122: im still your friend too
boo: can i ask you a gross ?
mcginty122: yes
boo: when you have runny poop
boo: what causes that
mcginty122: alcohol consumption
boo: really?
mcginty122: also: drinking coffee without having breakfast
boo: bingo
boo: on both counts
mcginty122: ewwww
boo: hahah
boo: yes
boo: i miss C
mcginty122: when do you see him next?
boo: how can you be charged with 7 counts of the same thing
boo: tommorrow
mcginty122: who's been charged?
boo: MJ
mcginty122: must be 7 different occasions
boo: oho
mcginty122: "Billie Jean is not my lover..."
boo: haha
boo: im glad we are friends
mcginty122: you make me blush
boo: no
boo: so what did you do last night
boo: did you watch OC'
mcginty122: no, i had to go out with my homeboy H and his friend I
mcginty122: we went to see some band at the El Rey
boo: were they good
mcginty122: they were ok
mcginty122: nothing to write home about
boo: oh
boo: how did you make plans with R
mcginty122: "I'm going to see a movie on Friday, let's go together" and she said "cool"
boo: good
boo: grab a drink after the movie
mcginty122: he he he
boo: for real
mcginty122: she likes hard alcohol, not beer- just like me... but we will probably just get stoned
boo: hang with her tonight
mcginty122: i will, for a little while-- I have to hang with my friend A because I promised her I would
boo: i want to see a picture of her
mcginty122: if i can find one
boo: ok
mcginty122: she's cute
boo: I bet
boo: she is white?
mcginty122: yes
mcginty122: blonde
boo: oh
mcginty122: short
mcginty122: nice figure
boo: stoner
boo: like you
mcginty122: oh yeah
mcginty122: and i think she is probably a wild cat in the sack, but that remains to be seen
boo: mmmm sex
boo: im an addict
mcginty122: so am i
mcginty122: but i've been cold turkey for some time
boo: poor C
mcginty122: what do you mean?
boo: i always want it
boo: from him
mcginty122: don't pity him
boo: he told me I was a nympho
mcginty122: you are
mcginty122: i can tell
boo: ho
boo: how
mcginty122: i just can tell-- don't ask me how I know, I just do
boo: ok
boo: i want to hurry and see C before my period comes
mcginty122: being in the red makes you hornier, no?
boo: yeah
mcginty122: see, i know what I'm talking about
boo: yes
boo: im late
mcginty122: for what?
boo: period
mcginty122: how late?
boo: a day or two
boo: no big deal
mcginty122: right-- if it's over 2 weeks late, then you worry
boo: right
boo: hi
mcginty122: hello
boo: he
boo: how many inches would two fists be
mcginty122: ?
mcginty122: are you talking length or circumference?
boo: length
mcginty122: two balled up fists side-by-side?
boo: on top of eachother
mcginty122: depends on the size of the hands-- I'd say between 10 and 12 inches-- is that what C be packin?
boo: yes
mcginty122: has he tagged you in the ass yet?
boo: nope
mcginty122: he will
boo: still his fingers
mcginty122: he's getting your ass warmed up for the big 10 incher
mcginty122: it takes a while to get the sphincter loose
boo: hahah really?
mcginty122: yep
mcginty122: mark my words
boo: do you have to be lying on yoru stomach for it to happen?
mcginty122: no
boo: can you be on your back
mcginty122: yes
mcginty122: there's no 'right' way to do it
mcginty122: you just do it
boo: one night I was really wet and he said it prob would have gone in just fine
mcginty122: he he he
mcginty122: have you ever had 10 inches of anything going up your ass?
boo: how would it have
boo: NO
mcginty122: you're going to be in for a nice surprise...
boo: it will hurt
mcginty122: maybe
boo: or feel good?
mcginty122: maybe
mcginty122: depends on you
mcginty122: that's why you need to go out and get a dildo
mcginty122: practice
boo: no way
mcginty122: get ready for the anal invasion
mcginty122: he will appreciate it
boo: i can tell him to stop on his way in if it hurts
boo: do you go in and out when you put it in
mcginty122: duh
mcginty122: of course-- it doesn't just sit there, lying still
boo: the tip hurts the worst?
mcginty122: i've never had anything up there, i don't know
boo: i know
mcginty122: you'd better buy a butt plug
boo: ill ask C he has done it with both his exes
mcginty122: probably-- guys with porno-size dicks usually like it anal because it's tighter-- just ask Kobe Bryant
boo: really
boo: i thinkhe is into it
mcginty122: think about it
mcginty122: he's getting you primed and prepped
mcginty122: it starts with a finger
mcginty122: then two
mcginty122: then three
boo: it has al;ready been 2
mcginty122: once you work your way up to three, your ass is his
mcginty122: literally
mcginty122: you might not be able to walk correctly for a day or two
mcginty122: i mean, 10 to 12 inches is pretty huge
mcginty122: what's the diameter of his cock?
boo: i dont knoe
mcginty122: how thick around is it?
boo: know
boo: how do i figure that out
mcginty122: you've held it, right?
boo: yes
boo: of course
mcginty122: does your hand go around it or not?
boo: umm
mcginty122: when you grip it, do your fingers touch your thumb?
boo: i cant touch my fingers
mcginty122: oh boy
boo: no
boo: shit
boo: I keep telling him he is huge and he doesnt beleive me
boo: he said it has shrunk
mcginty122: as you get older, the size goes down a tad
mcginty122: just a tad
boo: oh
boo: ewww
mcginty122: but your asshole is going to be gaping when he's done with you
boo: guess what happened
mcginty122: what?
boo: will it bleed
mcginty122: if he's not careful
mcginty122: what happened?
boo: a little while ago
boo: M called(C's ex remember)
boo: i told you about her right
boo: not babies mama
boo: hellooooooo
mcginty122: i'm here-- keep going
mcginty122: continue
boo: well she called and left him a message saying
boo: hi C, i cant beleive you didnt pick up the phone it is a first but i just want to tell you im moving out there in less than a year so keep that in the back of your head
mcginty122: she wants that big dick back
boo: what does that mean
mcginty122: you're going to have to fight her over that rattlesnake
boo: yeah but she is taller she would beat me
boo: what do I do
boo: she cant have him he is mine
mcginty122: maybe the two of you can share his cock-- i'm sure C would love that
boo: umm no
mcginty122: if he asked you to, would you have a 3some with him and her?
boo: hell no
boo: i would leave him if he asked me
mcginty122: but it's not like he doesn't have enough to go around
mcginty122: it's Christmas time
mcginty122: the season for sharing
boo: no
mcginty122: i get it-- you want it all for yourself
boo: yes
mcginty122: dick greed
boo: no i like him so much I would be so sad if he was chesating
boo: im so scared he will end up back with her
mcginty122: how old id their kid?
boo: whose kid
boo: she doesnt have a kid
mcginty122: who's the baby mama?
boo: L
boo: the baby is due in 3 weeks
mcginty122: you know Tom Leykis?
boo: yeah
mcginty122: call him and tell him about your situation-- he'll tell you to lose C
boo: he will
boo: why
mcginty122: he says that guys who date single mothers are doomed from the start, adn the same applies to single fathers as well.
boo: so im doomed b/c C is going to be a dad
mcginty122: with someone else's kid
mcginty122: someone has to lose out-- eitrher you, the mom, or the kid
mcginty122: who do you think will be the one to lose out the most?
boo: well it will be the babies mama
boo: and the kid
mcginty122: why do you think that?
boo: he cant stand L
boo: babies mama
boo: im scared though once baby comes everything will change
mcginty122: in the view of the COURTS, he's tied to her until that kid turns 18. She will most likely get custody, so he will have to pay for that kid, unless he becomes a deadbeat dad
mcginty122: if she is deemed 'unfit' then he gets custody but she will get visitation rights
boo: he'll pay
mcginty122: and then some
mcginty122: she will always be in the picture
boo: i know
mcginty122: if you can deal with that, then you are OK
boo: i am not threatened by her
boo: I mean im sure i might get jelous
boo: but it is M that bugs me
mcginty122: how long do you see yourself being with him?
boo: ?
mcginty122: do you think you ands C will date for years?
mcginty122: months?
mcginty122: weeks?
boo: hopefully years
boo: if it stays like this
mcginty122: more power to you
boo: who knows
boo: im prob stupid
mcginty122: NO, YOU'RE JUST LOOKING FOR LOVE
boo: yes
mcginty122: we all are
boo: aww he jsut called
boo: to tell me he was thinking of me
boo: ok
boo: i need your help
mcginty122: with what?
boo: I need you to write me one of yoru master paices
mcginty122: why?
boo: b/c you write pretty
mcginty122: what do you want me to write?
boo: a letter
mcginty122: saying what?
boo: how much I have fallen for C and it makes no sense and i love ebing with him and i get excited to see him and i smile
mcginty122: you know, if C ever found out that I was writing these things, he'd be pissed
boo: yeha well if he found out i kissed B when we first started dating he would be pissed
mcginty122: love letters from a guy? he'd think i was a fag
boo: no
mcginty122: it's like if he was having phone sex with a guy and thought it was a girl-- if he knew the truth he'd be upset
boo: i know you are straight
mcginty122: i know that too, but does he?
boo: he wont know
mcginty122: it'll come out someday
mcginty122: it always does, on accident
boo: no
boo: come on
boo: i cheated on him and it will never come out
mcginty122: what does it tell you that I can write better love odes to him than you can?
mcginty122: i mean, if you really love him, you'd find the words
mcginty122: right?
(pause)
boo's status is now "Available" (12/18/2003 2:31 PM)
boo: sorry
boo: well
mcginty122: its ok
boo: please
mcginty122: please what?
boo: write me the love letter
mcginty122: sorry, i feel all weird about it now
boo: cmom
boo: cmon for me I would od it for you
mcginty122: hahaha-- I don't need other people to write for me
mcginty122: i don't mean to be mean
boo: jsut please
mcginty122: i can't fight all of your battles for you
mcginty122: seriously
mcginty122: i love you and all, but put yourself in my shoes
mcginty122: for one second
boo: your not gay
mcginty122: that's not the issue
mcginty122: i don't care about that
boo: you write more eloquently
mcginty122: the point is, I want you for myself and yet I'm helping this guy who has kids all over the globe score with you
boo: all over the globe
boo: hahahahhahaa
mcginty122: and on other planets
boo: you dont want me you have R
mcginty122: all over the known galaxy
boo: puhlease just one on the way
mcginty122: what do i get out of it?
boo: my love
mcginty122: oh yeah, your love-- the same love you give to C
boo: the same you wanna give to R
mcginty122: yeah, but the diffrence is that if i want to write her a love poem, i use my own words
mcginty122: it makes it more special
boo: i know but please
mcginty122: he loves you-- anything you write will be fine
boo: jdsut this once Ill never ask you again
mcginty122: you WILL ask me again
boo: nope
mcginty122: don't you see that you're, in essence, LYING to C by asking me to do this?
boo: no im not
mcginty122: It's not from your heart
boo: yes it is
mcginty122: no, it's from MY heart
mcginty122: not yours
mcginty122: it's like taking a test-- if i answer all of your questions for you, did you really pass?
boo: fuck ok
boo: god
boo: are you my dad
mcginty122: i'm sorry, sweetie, but i can't hold your hand on this one
boo: i dont want you too
mcginty122: write him a letter and I'll check it for spelling
boo: hahahha
boo: i dont knwo how to start it
mcginty122: start by describing what he means to you
boo: what if he laughs
mcginty122: he won't, if he wants to tap that ass later
boo: and doesnt feel the same way
boo: im not seeing him till tommorrow
mcginty122: yeah right-- get real, he is sprung on you and you know it
boo: no
mcginty122: write hima sexy letter about how you want to put your hands around his cobra dick
boo: no
boo: im stuck im just staring
mcginty122: sexy letters work just as well
boo: at the screen
mcginty122: he'll start drooling
mcginty122: be naughty
boo: ok give me suggestions
boo: he'll think im a whore
mcginty122: no he won't-- he'll think you are super sexy
mcginty122: i'm a guy, trust me on this
mcginty122: all guys like it when their girls get nasty on them
mcginty122: unless they are gay
boo: C-
HI. Im at work very bored and im glad you jsut called becasue I was going to call you. The blood on my mouth this morning was from my chapped lips, gross huh? So it is Thursday and I wish it was Friday or yesterday b/c that means I would get to see you. I love seeing you. I love everything about our time together.
boo: now what
mcginty122: cut the part about the bloody mouth please
boo: heheh
boo: ok
boo: tell him things i love about him?
mcginty122: talk about the last time you two had sex-- describe how you felt when he did certain things to you
mcginty122: seriously, no joke
boo: sex will come later in the letter
mcginty122: fine, but don't forget to mention it
boo: first nice stuff
boo: i wont
boo: hello
mcginty122: yes?
boo: give me more suggestions
boo: i feel cheesy
boo: i put I lvoe how you make me laugh
mcginty122: that's good-- keep that train of thought going
boo: what is my next sentence
mcginty122: ugh
mcginty122: did you pass English at all?
boo: yes
boo: i went to NYU
mcginty122: and yet you're asking me, a guy who never went to college, how to write
boo: yeah
mcginty122: i'm glad i never went to college then
mcginty122: ok-- tell him that you think about him at certain moments of the day, then give an example
boo: i htink about him constatly
mcginty122: then SAY IT
boo: C-
HI. Im at work very bored and im glad you jsut called becasue I was going to call you. So it is Thursday and I wish it was Friday or yesterday b/c that means I would get to see you. I love seeing you. I love everything about our time together. Everything jsut kinda of stops when im with you and than when im not I find myself totally absorbed int houghts about you.
mcginty122: So far so good-- now get to the sex
boo: ok help me segway
mcginty122: you're already set-up-- just tell him about your fantasies when you think about him, how you want it all the time
boo: I think about how much fun I have with you and I run the times we have had over and over in my head.
boo: ok now
mcginty122: c'mon, sex it up
mcginty122: it won't be whore-ish i promise
boo: well write me a seway sentence
mcginty122: he'll fuck the living daylights out of you so hard after reading it
boo: ok give me some dirty sentences
mcginty122: Jesus Christ, I'm starting to think that he doesn't even exist
mcginty122: don't you ever talk dirty to him?
boo: hah
boo: ill send you a pic
mcginty122: while you're doing it?
mcginty122: surely you can come up with SOMETHING
boo: im too shy
mcginty122: bullshit!
boo: please
mcginty122: anything I say you will say "ewwww"
boo: he wont like a sex letter
mcginty122: YOU OBVIOUSLY HAVE NO CLUE AS TO WHAT MEN THINK ABOUT ALL DAY LONG IF YOU THINK HE WON'T LIKE A SEX LETTER
mcginty122: come one, boo-- you can do this
mcginty122: i believe in you
mcginty122: go boo! go boo! go boo!
mcginty122: YAY!!!!
boo: somthing like i think about how everything weith you is different even the sex
mcginty122: that's a start-- keep it going
boo: ok
boo: I have never wanted someone sexually like I want you
boo: good?
mcginty122: yes, very
boo: ok now what
boo: give me a sentence
mcginty122: FINE-- since I'm going to lunch right now, I will give you ONE sentence-- are you ready?
boo: hah
boo: yes but then you got to coem back and read my letter
mcginty122: ok
mcginty122: here it is
mcginty122: "I can't stop thinking about the other night, how I could barely hold you in my hands... whatever you want me to do, I will do it, because i can't keep my hands off of you"
mcginty122: how's that?
boo: no
mcginty122: see? i knew you would be a prude about it
boo: hahah
mcginty122: I'll be back in an hour, ok?
boo: hurry
mcginty122: sure
boo: i love you
mcginty122: yeah yeah, i love you too...
boo: hey!
mcginty122 is now "Logged off"(12/18/2003 3:31 PM)
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THE FOLLOWING POSTS ARE FROM A MESSAGE BOARD AT AKHEVA.COM-- I HAVE REPRODUCED THE ENTRIES HERE IN CASE A CERTAIN PERSON WANTS TO START SOME TROUBLE WITH ME. I HAVE NOT ALTERED THE TEXT OF THESE POSTS IN ANY WAY, AND IF MORE CONTINUE TO PROLIFERATE, I WILL POST THOSE AS WELL.
So I see that no one has been sent away yet...
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...and there hasn't been any donations in months.
It's not surprising, of course. At best, this concept was suited for non-success from the onset. At worst, the stunning magnitude of its utter failure is an indication that one should not try to keep up with the zeitgeists. The fact is, in another year, no one will care about who is more patriotic and what to do about terrorism.
In another year, we will all be back to caring only for ourselves.
I look forward to that.
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Geez, yet another person who doesnt bother to read the other threads before they post crap about the site being unsuccessful.
Hey Don, do you have the standard response ready to copy and paste?????
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Well.......considering how many times I have had to use the answer, I probably should develop a "standard" response to that kind of post - but I see that as more of the owner's problem, or one for the administrators. I'm just another poster.
Two main points:
1. The owner of this site did not intend to have anyone "sent away" against their will. The owner was tired of hearing people say that they hated America, and that they wanted to leave our nation - so he was offering to give them money to do it. No force intended or implied - ThenLeave was trying to help someone do what they claimed they wanted to do already.
This question has been posed before, and answered several times by several posters. (That is why WVUMedGuy was wondering if we had a standard response as yet - since it seems to be the first, and often the only, question that a newbie leftist asks on this forum.)
Look over other threads, and you will see that the question has been asked and answered before, and more than once. The last poster to make the challenge was chthonicplatypus, in a topic named Why the xenophobia? That thread should be relatively easy to find under the TOPIC listings when you look at the main page of the forum.
2. After months of making the challenge, the forum's owner found out that the folks who claimed to hate America were all talk, and no action. Time after time, a leftist turned down a chance to leave the United States, even when ThenLeave offered money to help them. (So the number of people on the "volunteer to leave" list kept shrinking.....) Therefore, ThenLeave ceased collecting money for the enterprise - and has donated the funds collected to a charity. This is why no money has been collected lately.
Note that the failure was not on the part of this site's owner - but upon the leftists who were claiming that they wanted to leave the country! If they had been serious about their claims, then some of them would have left. By not leaving, these leftists merely proved what the "regulars" on this forum knew already: America is a great country! Who would want to live anywhere else?
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I'm quite aware of the posts and threads-- I applied to be sent away months ago. Not only was I not added to your candidates list (which hasn't changed since I first applied) but I seriously doubted that you guys would be able to raise the money to send even ONE person away. I wrote this out in an e-mail, and of course I got no response from you guys. I see that my doubts were founded in solid reasoning.
I read about "Doug" whom you list as having "changed his mind" about leaving the country. Someone sent an e-mail in, saying that they would be happy to drive "Doug" to his desired location (it was in the continental U.S.) and save the site some money in the process. HOW CHEAP IS THAT? Not to mention the fact that anyone who would accept a ride from a person who most likely is intolerant of their political beliefs would have to be insane to do so.
No, I am not "Doug"-- I am Sex McGinty, and I've been checking up on you guys from time to time. Your high-faltuin' verbiage aside, there is no justification for this failure of a website.
Sold any American-flag-themed coffee mugs lately?
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McGinty...While I don't remember getting an e-mail specifically from you (there have been hundreds) maybe it was too full of ranting for us to spend time reading every word. We have received so many that start "Hey Asshole..." that we tend to tune out after a sentence or two. Sorry that I missed you though (ha-ha).
However, I have to agree with Don that this site was a success in that it proved (at some level) that this country shouldn't be hated by it's residents. This is the best country in the world. If you disagree with the state of the country...then change it. Don't whine like a child and do nothing.
PS: I have one of the coffee mugs and it is quite nice.
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Hey, mcginty: Now that I know a few more details, and you are claiming that e-mail has failed your purposes, I am now curious.........
Why do you hate America? Don't talk about Bush, or about side-issues - because the basis for getting money from ThenLeave was that you hate America itself, and wish to leave it. So why do you want to leave, and where do you want to go? (Perhaps part of the answer will reveal why you were not taken seriously as a candidate!)
You are claiming that ThenLeave didn't listen to you earlier, so here is your chance to have me listen to you now. How about some specifics on your case? I mean, if you are really that desperate to leave a nation that you hate - maybe we can still find a way to help you out........
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First of all, the thing I hate the most is how people like yourself are marginalizing people like myself, by drawing a line in the sand and saying "You are either for us or against us." That is the most anti-American thing I can imagine, but you wrap yourself around the Flag and tell anyone who dissents that they are wrong. That is not what America is about. If it weren't for political dissent, America would still be an English colony.
However, I also agree that people like yourself have the right to voice your opinions. Hell, the KKK has the right to voice their opinions, even if I don't agree with them. And, of course, I have the right to voice mine. That's what I love about America.
Now that I think about it, it's not the country I hate-- it's the tactics of people like you. Notice how I didn't say that I hate you in particular-- I don't know you, and for all I know you may be a nice person outside of your poltical beliefs. But just look at your conditions for listening to my reasons: don't mention Bush and the economy? Why do you not want to hear about that? It seems to me that you are living life with blinders on.
Anyway, I'd like a ticket to Amsterdam. Who knows? Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave. But I was hoping to go by the summer, and now it's Fall, and I was the one who had to come to you guys THREE TIMES already. And what about the other "candidates?" If they really have all changed their minds, as you claim, then why haven't you updated your site to reflect this? It seems to me that you have no faith in your own convictions. Therefore, anything you say to me at this point is entirely without credibilty.
I don't hate America, and I don't hate Americans in specific-- I hate the actions of ignorant Americans who make me feel ashamed for living under the same umbrella as them. You do not speak for me, just as I do not speak for you. But get real-- Iraq was a bad idea, and now my stepfather has to stay out there until May, instead coming home to his wife (my mother) and his kids in October like Bush promised. He's a reserve, and was proud to do his time, but if you ask me a real hero and a real patriot stays at home and raises their kids and takes care of his loved ones. That's all the proof I need from him to call him a hero.
How many friends and family do you have out there in Iraq? I'm assuming that you have at least one cousin or nephew who wishes he or she were home, indulging in the creature comforts that war-mongers like yourself take for granted.
I support the troops- read the L.A Times article from that soldier who is out in Iraq right now. I believe he used the words "biggest modern lie" to describe his participation in Operation Iraqi Freedom. I support the troops, because they don't want to be out there, fighting so that someone who is rich can get richer off of them.
Anyway, the minute you scrape up enough change from under your couch to get me on the plane to Amsterdam, please let me know ASAP. You may think I'm bluffing, but I guarantee you-- I will not change my mind. I think that's what you guys are afraid of, and I think that's why I've never been accepted as a candidate.
For the third time,
Sex McGinty
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ps: I'm sure the mugs are quite nice-- and I'm sure there's hundreds of them, sitting in unopened boxes, begging to be sold on eBay...
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Now that I think about it, it's not the country I hate-- it's the tactics of people like you. Notice how I didn't say that I hate you in particular-- I don't know you, and for all I know you may be a nice person outside of your poltical beliefs. But just look at your conditions for listening to my reasons: don't mention Bush and the economy? Why do you not want to hear about that? It seems to me that you are living life with blinders on.
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OK - there is a lot of hate in your life........I get that part of it.
But I hope that you can see in your first sentence above why you were not taken seriously as a candidate. That is, the basis of the "candidate list" was for people who really, truly "HATE AMERICA" - and you confess above that it is not our nation that you hate. If a candidate were to simply hate some of the people in America - then almost every single American would be a candidate, right?? But the point was, ThenLeave was looking for folks who had a legitimate hatred for the nation, and wanted to leave it due to their hatred. You may have wanted to go on a vacation.......but you didn't want to go to Amsterdam because you hate the United States of America. So you must have had another reason.........and that is probably what eliminated you.
As for the end of your paragraph - you are trying too hard to read between lines that aren't there. My tactic here is very straight-forward. You may tell us how much you hate our president to your heart's content on the other threads - or even this thread, if it makes you feel better. (This forum emphasizes freedom of speech, after all.) But you missed the point of my question. I didn't want to hear that you wanted to leave America because you were anti-Bush (even if you are) - because anti-Bush is not the same as anti-American. And being out of work gives you a possible reason to hate the economy - but anti-unemployment is not the same as being anti-American. So perhaps my question was taken as being a tad "rude" - but the purpose I was after was to learn why you were definitely "anti-American", instead of being "anti-anything-else". So you were thinking that I was telling you to shut-up, and I was not. Rather, I was trying to find out specifically why you hated our nation - and it turns out that you do not. (My "blinders" were to make sure I wouldn't miss the reasons in a sea of answers that were not anti-American. I hope that you can see that now.)
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First of all, the thing I hate the most is how people like yourself are marginalizing people like myself, by drawing a line in the sand and saying "You are either for us or against us." That is the most anti-American thing I can imagine, but you wrap yourself around the Flag and tell anyone who dissents that they are wrong. That is not what America is about. If it weren't for political dissent, America would still be an English colony.
However, I also agree that people like yourself have the right to voice your opinions. Hell, the KKK has the right to voice their opinions, even if I don't agree with them. And, of course, I have the right to voice mine. That's what I love about America.
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I think that the important part is to clarify what is being said on this site. The point ThenLeave makes is that you either want to live in this nation, or you wish to leave - and if you hate America enough to leave it......then help is offered. Whether you agree with us or not on all points is not the issue on this forum.
I would actually appreciate it if you would take your opinion to the hard-core "leftist" forums on the web, and make the same complaint that you just did. You see, if I were to dare to say something conservative on many liberal forums, then I would be instantly banned from that forum. By your argument above - doesn't that make liberal forums "unAmerican"? Perhaps you should go and tell them about this............... The fact that you can still login and yell at us basically lets you know that this site is very pro-freedom-of-speech. I'd urge you to think about that point.
Once again, you have mentioned a reason that you love America - so I will remind you that to be a verified candidate, you have to hate America, and desire to leave the country because of your hate.
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So, in other words, you're just waiting for the one person in America who hates it more than people in other
countries...
As far as lame excuses go, that's Number One.
I like how you say I have a lot of hate in my life, then you go on to say that I don't hate America enough.
Just admit that you're cheap, and that your site is a dud, and I'll be on my way.
I knew, from the first e-mail, when I actually went out of my way to say I hated America (because at the time I was out of work and all that), that this was a farce. Every response you've given me confirms this.
In fact, thanks to you, I won $50 from a friend who bet me that this time I was going to get sent away for good. I bet him that you guys had no intention of sending anyone in the first place, and I was right.
I'd spend the money on some of those mugs, but the only problem is I'd be sending money to you.
As for vacation, who takes year long vacations? I certainly don't. You said on your site ANYWHERE in the world, as long as it wasn't a terrorist-sponsoring country.
Anyway, I'll keep responding to your posts as long as you keep posting them. But you know you've lost, right? Despite your attempts to sound rational and civilized, the rest of your site speaks for itself. Everyone I have given the URL to-- even people who once felt the way you do-- have felt nauseated by the crappy stench of your version of patriotism.
And are you going to give back the paltry $176.00 that you somehow managed to raise? Or was that out of your own pocket? Better yet-- you raised the money, and now you're claiming that it's yours.
Go to www.modestneeds.org-- maybe the guy at that site will lend you the money to send someone away.
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Don't split hairs here-- you people at this site are the ones saying "for or against." And since I am against what you are for, that makes me an America-hater. Therefore, by your own divisive logic, you MUST send me to Amsterdam, because I am against you and your "America-loving" crew.
Yes, it's black-and-white extremist logic, but it's that very same logic that enables people to say "If you don't like it here, then leave!"
On that note: I'd like to leave on October 24th of this year-- that's the day after my mother's birthday. She'd be terribly displeased if I missed her birthday. I don't want to fly on United or American, though-- something about those airlines gives me the creeps...
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Anyway, I'd like a ticket to Amsterdam. Who knows? Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave. But I was hoping to go by the summer, and now it's Fall, and I was the one who had to come to you guys THREE TIMES already. And what about the other "candidates?" If they really have all changed their minds, as you claim, then why haven't you updated your site to reflect this? It seems to me that you have no faith in your own convictions. Therefore, anything you say to me at this point is entirely without credibilty.
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First - about the site. I'm just a poster here, like you are. So I have no control whatsoever over the site. Please don't blame me for not updating a site that I don't own. It isn't your fault that the site isn't getting updated, either, is it?? I agree with you on this point - if the site is actually taking a step away from offering money to folks who want to leave - then the main web page should be updated to reflect this, and avoid any confusions on the point. But all that I can do is to urge ThenLeave to do so.......that is the extent of my power. Note for emphasis: You have not come to me three times already - I am just a poster like you are. Feel free to send a PM (Personal Message) to ThenLeave about the issue - and maybe he can get to it when his work allows him to.
But the point that I was making earlier was that I recall a time when the site reported having twenty-six candidates. The number on the main page is now listing nine candidates. So the site has changed in the past to reflect the number of folks who claimed to be "serious" about hating America, and wanting to leave it. Apparently, the reason 26 people became candidates, and the number dropped to 9, was that at least 15 of the candidates did not truly hate America enough to leave it - or changed their minds when they found that ThenLeave was serious about helping them leave.
I should also note that to become a "verified candidate", a person was supposed to guarantee ThenLeave that they would stay out of the country for a year. This was to measure their seriousness in leaving - as I'm sure many people might be asking for money just so that they could take a quick vacation for less money. And the point of this web site was to tell folks that if they were preaching enough hate to leave America and wanting to leave it - then you were going to stay out for a while.
Now let's go over the requirements again. Do you hate America the nation? (Nope.) Did you promise to leave for at least a year? (Nope. "Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave" is not the same as a promise to stay out for at least a year, and I think you know that.) Do you have an American passport, shots, and other things taken care of so that you really CAN leave America? I hope that you know that you cannot just go to an airport, and go to another nation in Europe with no paperwork! From what I can see........you were not put on the candidate's list for legitimate reasons - and if you had complaints before - you should have entered them on this forum back then, instead of waiting for your desired date to leave to expire first.
Finally, I'll remind you again that I'm just a poster here - putting my two cents in, just like you are. So don't hate me for my opinions. And don't blame me for the way the site is run - that isn't my job. (I'm getting a little tired of hearing that my postings have no credibility because I dare to post items on a site that I don't own!)
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I don't hate America, and I don't hate Americans in specific-- I hate the actions of ignorant Americans who make me feel ashamed for living under the same umbrella as them. You do not speak for me, just as I do not speak for you. But get real-- Iraq was a bad idea, and now my stepfather has to stay out there until May, instead coming home to his wife (my mother) and his kids in October like Bush promised. He's a reserve, and was proud to do his time, but if you ask me a real hero and a real patriot stays at home and raises their kids and takes care of his loved ones. That's all the proof I need from him to call him a hero.
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And the first sentence tell you why you haven't been a verified candidate on this site. If you don't have a legitimate hatred for America - then you aren't in the list of folks who truly want to leave because they hate America - it is that simple.
The issue of Iraq is one that we can debate - but being anti-Iraq does not make you anti-American. (If you were waiting for someone who is "conservative" to say that......now you have heard me say it!)
If you didn't know it, mcginty, I am a retired Army officer. So I understand what you are saying about "doing your time", and "being away from your family". If your father is like me - then I know he does not enjoy being away from you any more than you like it! I'm not going to debate your definition of "hero" - because it is a correct one.
But you also pointed out above that dissent made the American nation. Do you understand that General Washington and others did not simply say, "we disagree", and instantly became a nation?! They had to take up arms for what they thought was right. If they had not taken up arms and fought, and spent a lot of time away from their families, then America would not exist. And now is a great time to remind you - no one on Earth can tell exactly how long a war will last, and how much effort it will take to stabilize a nation after it has been defeated. Got it? No one! Folks who tell you that they know such things have never been in uniform. (At least, I hope that is the case!) You are blaming President Bush for something that is beyond his control. He should not have "promised" a return by October when that kind of thing cannot be guaranteed. We had a lot of criticism for President Bush, Sr. on Iraq - for starting a war against Saddam, and not finishing it. Now that we have finished a war against Saddam - I would also propose that it makes sense to do our very best to insure that a viable, democratic government be in power (and supported) so that we don't have to go back in your generation, or in your children's. As with many other jobs, you can choose to do the job right, or resign yourself to having to do it over, later.
Pardon me if this point is too annoying - but it is also true that if you are not willing to serve - then you should not join the Army. It is that simple. "I want to defend my nation......but only on weekends........and only in my home town!" Now you know that such a thing is ridiculous, don't you? So I would also claim that part of the anger which you have should be directed at your own stepfather. He made the decision to serve, and no one held a gun to his head while he signed the papers........... If not Iraq, it could have been North Korea. If not Korea, maybe Cuba. But nobody is guaranteed a "100% peacetime" tour of duty. Not your stepfather, not my cousin, and not me. If you don't want the risk, then get out of the uniform. If you put on the uniform - then follow orders - and don't moan about promises that were never made. It is that simple.
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I support the troops- read the L.A Times article from that soldier who is out in Iraq right now. I believe he used the words "biggest modern lie" to describe his participation in Operation Iraqi Freedom. I support the troops, because they don't want to be out there, fighting so that someone who is rich can get richer off of them.
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For the record, the richest person in Iraq was Saddam Hussein - and he isn't getting any richer right now......... He lived in billion-dollar palaces while most of his people didn't even know about indoor plumbing. I'm not sure which "rich person getting richer" you are talking about - I can only be sure that it isn't Saddam or his family. With the rebuilding in Iraq - maybe all of the people get wealthier, since they won't be building palaces any longer - maybe they can afford some toilets, and training in proper sanitation, so the people end up better off and healthier.
A soldier who says what he thinks is not necessarily providing bona-fide facts. After world war II, there were a lot of conspiracy theorists who said that Hitler was still alive in Argentina! (Yes, veterans were making these reports!) But reading that in one of the papers every month did not make it true! And during the war, all of the media reported General Patton as saying that America and Britain would rule the post-war world. Point one: Yes, he really said it! Point two: It wasn't true - as the Soviets had something to say about it! So a three-star General could be wrong in what he thinks and says, but the guy interviewed in Iraq must certainly be accurate - isn't that obvious? (Sarcasm intended.)
You may be quoting one article, and perhaps your own step-dad - but you might just be reaching to claim that you are speaking for every single soldier in Iraq. Didn't you just claim that there isn't a single soldier in Iraq who is serving his nation without complaint? Am I the only one who suspects that scuh a claim isn't accurate????.........
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Anyway, the minute you scrape up enough change from under your couch to get me on the plane to Amsterdam, please let me know ASAP. You may think I'm bluffing, but I guarantee you-- I will not change my mind. I think that's what you guys are afraid of, and I think that's why I've never been accepted as a candidate.
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I don't own the site, and I don't administer it - so quit assuming that I run the place - I do not. You have heard me refer to him before - the owner is ThenLeave - that isn't the name of the site, it is the login name of the site owner. He may have more than one administrator, but I don't know that story. The point is - if you have something personal to say to ThenLeave - then do so. But quit blaming the rest of us in a hissy-fit when you didn't get your way. I never offered to give anyone any money - and I'm tired of being treated as though I did.
I am not the person who decides who is a "verified candidate" - but as a common poster, I think that I've pointed out some of the reasons that you were not made one. Yelling at me as though I personally made the decision on you, and did it deliberately to screw you, is ridiculous. "You guys" is lumping me in with other people, and I don't necessarily enjoy being blamed for something that I didn't do.
You were filing a complaint on the forum about not being a candidate - and I confess it freely - I was curious as to your circumstances. I just wondered if I could figure out why you were not one of the verified candidates. I stated why it is possible, but I'm not the authority, to be sure.
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So, in other words, you're just waiting for the one person in America who hates it more than people in other
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As far as lame excuses go, that's Number One.
I like how you say I have a lot of hate in my life, then you go on to say that I don't hate America enough.
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I'm not waiting for anything. I have no more power here than you do.
The point is: folks were saying that they legitimately hated America, and wanted to leave it for that reason. You have freely confessed that you are not one of these people, so I wonder about your term "lame excuses". If you weren't really one of those people - then why did you even apply? You are calling the site owner a liar - when you were one to start with! Your application said, "I really hate America" - and now you are saying, "No, I love America for several reasons!" You should make up your mind which side of fence you are going to be standing on........... And if "I love America" is what you are saying - then that is the point I think that our site owner was trying to make. That is, the folks who say that they truly hate America are full of hot air - they do not hate America, and they do not hate it enough to leave it for that reason. So you want to travel, so what? If hate isn't the reason - then be quiet.
I have no doubt at all that you are a person who wants to go overseas, and you want to find a way to force someone else to pay for it. But the fact that you cannot tell the truth to this site's owner is not my problem. Get a job.......keep a job........and don't bitch to me if you cannot afford to do all of the things that you want to do - because I cannot afford all of my dreams, either.
Finally - you have a lot of hate in your life - but that does not mean that any of it is toward our nation. In fact, I sense a great deal of hate toward me.........and all I have done is tried to figure out what in the heck you were talking about. Lots of hate......no good reason......
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Just admit that you're cheap, and that your site is a dud, and I'll be on my way.
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I never made you a guarantee, buddy. And it isn't my site.
But since you bring it up, which lawyer were you planning to hire to write up the contract by which you would guarantee not to return to America for a year? After saying, "I really hate America, so I need to be a candidate!", and then saying, "Well, I don't really hate this nation!" - are you claiming now that anyone should be taking your word for anything, Mr. Ledesma? If I were running the thing, I'd expect a written contract. You know, something that explained in hard words what penalty would be applied to you if you ended up lying..........most certainly more money than I'd be paying to get you over there......so that you'd pay more money to come home than you would to stay.......you know.......something FAIR.
And don't bother responding to that.......I'm sure that your answer goes something like, "just trust me", and if you decide to wimp out and come home early.......that's just my tough stuff, right? People who have money need to be "responsible" toward you, and give you free money - but the reverse is never true about you being responsible, right? That is "only if you feel like it......"
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I knew, from the first e-mail, when I actually went out of my way to say I hated America (because at the time I was out of work and all that), that this was a farce. Every response you've given me confirms this.
In fact, thanks to you, I won $50 from a friend who bet me that this time I was going to get sent away for good. I bet him that you guys had no intention of sending anyone in the first place, and I was right.
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So what I am guessing as another poster on the forum is the same as what the site owner is thinking..............maybe I could sell that talent to the government!
Yes......you went out of your way to say you hated America, and now you say that you lied! So now, of course, you have the right to question everyone else's credibility.......because, after all, "it takes one to know one"!
Please identify your friend, so that I can talk to him - because he doesn't owe you $50 bucks. Anything that I am saying as just another poster is no proof whatsoever as to what the site owner "intended" to do. If you keep that money, James, you are guilty of fraud. To prove that someone "did not have an intention" in court, you need to do more than report what someone else on the forum has said, and you know it. So what did you bet on......really......? Whether you would get sent is a different bet entirely than if the owner really "intended to send someone" who wanted to leave the nation.
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As for vacation, who takes year long vacations? I certainly don't. You said on your site ANYWHERE in the world, as long as it wasn't a terrorist-sponsoring country.
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My point exactly - and that is why folks would require a written contract to make it official. Otherwise, you could say, "I never agreed to go for a year", just like you said, "I really don't hate America......". The reason for the one-year requirement was to avoid a bunch of applications from folks who just wanted a free plane ride - and planned to come home right after their "vacation". As you have noted over and over.......some people lie.
I don't think that there is a dispute over Amsterdam, James, but like I said, I am not the person who makes any of those decisions. I hope that you understand that part of the situation is whether a nation would accept you - and that was what ThenLeave should have made more clear. For example, some folks don't think that North Korea sponsors terrorism..........but whether folks feel that way or not.......the point is that that nation does not have a tourism industry - you cannot get into North Korea without an explicit invitation to get in. So even if you wanted to go there.......no one could get you in unless the nation wanted to see you. The Netherlands is a lot easier to get into - so I don't see that as a problem.
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And are you going to give back the paltry $176.00 that you somehow managed to raise? Or was that out of your own pocket? Better yet-- you raised the money, and now you're claiming that it's yours.
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There is a thread labelled, "IMPORTANT QUESTION FROM ADMINISTRATOR" - started by ThenLeave. This is where the site's owner identified that he was giving up on the prospect of sending anyone out of America, because he couldn't find anyone who was serious. (His claim - not mine.)
The plan was to donate the money raised to a charity - but I don't think that the owner ever told us where the money ended up - maybe we can encourage him on that point, and get the information.
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Anyway, I'll keep responding to your posts as long as you keep posting them. But you know you've lost, right? Despite your attempts to sound rational and civilized, the rest of your site speaks for itself. Everyone I have given the URL to-- even people who once felt the way you do-- have felt nauseated by the crappy stench of your version of patriotism.
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And despite my health problems, I'll keep trying to tell folks what I think as well. And I haven't lost - because there was nothing to win. I don't enter my opinion to win anything. This isn't a debate at old Cleveland High School - where you might get points for BS, Jimmy.
I won't debate about the main web site - as you are not the first to have read it as saying something differently than was intended. That is why we have so many threads that start out yelling at us, and end up a lot calmer. Maybe we can get ThenLeave to update it for clarity.....one last time.
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Don't split hairs here-- you people at this site are the ones saying "for or against." And since I am against what you are for, that makes me an America-hater. Therefore, by your own divisive logic, you MUST send me to Amsterdam, because I am against you and your "America-loving" crew.
Yes, it's black-and-white extremist logic, but it's that very same logic that enables people to say "If you don't like it here, then leave!"
On that note: I'd like to leave on October 24th of this year-- that's the day after my mother's birthday. She'd be terribly displeased if I missed her birthday. I don't want to fly on United or American, though-- something about those airlines gives me the creeps...
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I'm not splitting hairs - I'm saying what I think as another poster on the forum - why does that annoy you so much? The point is that "American hater" comes from the heart - and not from someone else's opinion of you. A black person saying "racist" does not make someone a racist - but acting as a racist makes someone a racist. It is that simple. What seems to make you angry is when other people behave like they want to.......and say how they feel, instead of behaving the way you believe we should behave. Doesn't that make you look kinda "prejudiced"? I mean........"I know how you think"......"I know how you feel"......."I know what 'you people' do in such situations" - that is prejudiced - and if I said it to a person of a different race, I'm sure that they would be mad about it. James Ledesma doesn't have any more rights than anyone else............so quit acting as though other people are less than you, mentally.
No one has ever said, "If you don't like it here, then leave!" What the owner has said is, "If you hate America, and want to leave it - maybe we can help." You see, you are claiming that leaving the nation is our idea - and it is supposed to be the idea of the person who is leaving. Now by your own "divisive logic", no one has to send you anywhere - because you claim it is 100% the owner's decision, and no one else's. And if you truly believe that, then you should shut up - because it is his decision, and no one else's. Now let me take it out of your words, and put it into my own - since I'm not part of site ownership. "The site owner is the boss. He does what he wants, and you are not his boss. If you have a dispute that is valid - hire an attorney. That is how you actually "win" this kind of thing. If you want to prove that you are right - then take him to court and prove it. Anything less is pure BS."
Speaking of "black and white extremist logic" - you said that you wanted to go to Amsterdam this summer.......so why are you still here? Pardon my sarcasm, but you really don't strike me as being very serious about leaving if you are still in America months after you absolutely, positively, had to go.......... And now you bring up your mother's birthday - what does that have to do with anything? If ThenLeave had sent you to Amsterdam for a year in June.......then you wouldn't have been here for her birthday......would you? So it didn't matter before, and you said so.......so why does it matter now? People in their late-20's or early-30's are adults now - so guess what? Your mommy should be able to live without you there this year - just like you planned for yourself when you asked to leave this summer, right? You graduated from high school eleven years ago - so you do a few things without mommy's permission, right? (If you could afford a round trip flight to visit mommy for her birthday - then you can afford your own one-way ticket to Amsterdam - so go! And stop whining......)
And all of the sudden, you want to pick your airline - my, oh, my! I thought that ThenLeave was the guy who made that decision. There is no guarantee anywhere on the site, stated or implied, that the person leaving gets to choose the transportation company. Sounds like you are just setting yourself up for another, "They won't do it right!" bitch-and-moan session about the decisions. So you want to leave, but only 100% on your terms, whether that was put in writing or not - and you want to exclude two of the airlines that provide the shortest flights at the best prices. (Yes, I checked.) From what I'm seeing - you don't seem to want to go - or you would have gone already. This thread is just another "finger pointing exercise" - where you blame someone else for your own wimpy little ability to not do what you want.
(Where do you work? Have you told your employer of your plans to leave the country next month, or are you lying about that to stay in good with the boss?)
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Well, I have taken a break for a couple of days - are you going to answer, or not??????????
(I beg your pardon if you have been taken out by health reasons, like I do sometimes. But it seems that your fire on this thread has been extinguished. Has it?)
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donrosenberger, you state repeatedly that this is not your site, that you don't make the decisions, that you are just a common poster. Then you go on to explain in almost three pages of posts what the point of this site is and why mcginty did not qualify for the trip out of the country. Can't blame him for being confused. Why don't you let the site's owner speak for himself? If he can be bothered.
Talk about beating a dead horse. You are all over this board speaking for the owner. Why don't you just get over it and move on with your life?
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So.............
Basically, if someone says anything to criticize the owner of the forum, then they are allowed to do that, because of the ethic called "freedom of speech".
But if anyone wishes to support the site owner, and tells someone that they are "mistaken" in their twisted beliefs and criticisms, then they are not allowed to do that....... And the reason for this is simple enough: it is because BigRed now speaks as the owner of the site, and makes all of the decisions. Huh????????
Three points:
1. sexmcginty stated that he would reply to every post, as long as we kept posting. So where is he? I am not the site's owner - but I have the same freedom of speech as anyone else. Leftists who do not believe in freedom of speech for all should not come here preaching about freedom of speech. (I have the firm belief that if sexmcginty had spent five pages, and 50 posts, making criticism of the site owner - then BigRed would not have said a thing about it. Sounds like a clear case of discrimination to me.........................)
2. I'm still anxious to hear as to whether James Ledesma (sexmcginty) has notified his employer of his plans to leave the nation. I mean........if he is truly serious about departure for at least a year........shouldn't his boss know about it, so that James can be replaced at work? I can hear the silence....................... But somehow - I'm sure that this "silence" means that he can come back later, and claim that he did not lose the argument. So get the gist - if you say that you are going to answer every point - and then run away to hide - then you are not a truly "verified candidate". When you run away from the effort to verify you, even when it is conducted by other posters, then you're not a real candidate, and anyone reading the forum can see it.
3. Everyone else has stopped discussing this point - so why are you here, offering your two cents way too late? To quote another poster on the forum: "Talk about beating a dead horse........ Why don't you just get over it and move on with your life?"
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I am not stopping the site owner from doing any speaking. The site owner has the same freedom of speech as any other poster. So perhaps the site owner believes that I am telling the truth.....or the site owner would take the time to post a statement saying that I am wrong, now wouldn't he??? (That is the argument posters use when they criticize the site owner, now isn't it? You like it when the argument works for you.......so get used to it when the same argument works against you!)
Now on the same line of your argument........why are you even here? Why can't you leave things alone, and let sexmcginty speak for himself? If James still has a point to make, then let him do it! If it is wrong for me to help one side of the conversation, then it is wrong for you to chime in on the other side .........and that is by your own rules, and not because I said so.
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BigRed...Don does a great job of speaking for what this site is about. He expresses my views (as the real site owner) quite well. I see no point in stating my views if they have already been expressed. I stated a long time ago that this forum was built for users of the site only. I did not want to get involved...if you have a question for me...try the e-mail link.
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Now that I think about it, it's not the country I hate.
I don't hate America, and I don't hate Americans in specific.
Anyway, I'd like a ticket to Amsterdam. Who knows? Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave. But I was hoping to go by the summer, and now it's Fall, and I was the one who had to come to you guys THREE TIMES already.
All statements made by sexmcginty.
You must hate America to qualify for the offer.
What part of that don't you understand?
You can ask as many times as you want, but you might want to consider www.freevacationairfare.com
Then leave is not about handing out airline tickets to every person that asks.
YOU MUST MEET THE CRITERIA FOR THE OFFER.
You have PROVEN in your posts that you do NOT qualify.
What I'm trying to understand is WHY there are so many people claiming to hate America when there is a possibility for a free ticket, but later say they don't hate America or it's people?
Maybe you are just mad because your attempt to get a free ticket without the qualifications has failed.
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Well........here's my two cents:
It appears that sexmcginty and others have made a rampant assumption. That is, they hate free speech - and specifically, what ThenLeave has to say. And as people who hate free speech - they assume that anyone who disagrees with them must be unAmerican.
Now they transfer this assumption incorrectly to ThenLeave, and claim that if they disagree with the site in any way, then they must be viewed as unAmerican. This web site does not do this assessment, the leftists do this incorrectly to themselves - and since they oppose free speech, they detest it when one of us points out that their self-assessment is incorrect!
You may have noticed that BigRed has put his two cents in as well - basically, telling me that the only people who should be on the discussion forum are the site owner and the people who oppose him. That is fairly one-sided logic, but I seem to recall that BigRed claimed to be a lawyer. So perhaps the one-sided logic should not surprise me coming from that profession.
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Usually, my e-mail service alerts me to when a reply has come in. For the last few posts, this has not been the case. Since I have a life that has nothing to do with this site, I haven't been responding.
But every time I leave the site and come back after a while, I notice certain things. Like, the candidates list staying the same. Or the amount of money raised staying the same. And now, an administrator's note asking if it's worth it to keep the site going.
By the way: Thank you, Big Red, for pointing out Mr. Rosenberger's fanatical fervor in his line-by-line refutation of my post. Indeed, Rosenberger, I "got your goat" and put you on the defensive in a massive way... and all I had to do was post my thoughts. Maybe it was that line you posted at the end of every one of your posts, about defeating people with reason... maybe I took that to heart, and gave you a taste of your own medicine.
I don't expect you to concede: only an honorable opponent would do that.
I suspect that this will be my last post, not because I have nothing left to say, but because I don't think this site or this message board will even be here the next time I visit it.
Thanks for the memories...
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If you had actually taken the time to read other posts on this site, you will notice that Don Rosenbereger answers almost all posts in that same line by line manner. You have not "gotten his goat". You have merely received the "standard response".
Also, the thread from the administrator is not a new post. It is a post which has been made "sticky" to put it at the top of the list so the liberals can find it. We were hoping you would look at the date and be able to figure that out.
If you look at the bottom of the screen underneath the spot that you type your reply, you must check the box behind "get notifications when someone replies?" in order for your e-mail service to do the right thing.
You seem to be quite eager to claim a victory which hasn't been won. (not even close!!) The only thing you've been able to accomplish is to make yourself look like a fool if front of your BLOG friends that are supposed to be watching you "beat down" ThenLeave. Your random musings and lack of substance in your posts shows everyone that you have not taken the time to research what you are trying to oppose.
We have, however, extended an invitation for you to debate with us if you like. Just set your arrogant attitude aside & we can get to business.
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Yes, I would love to debate you and whomever feels the need to be debated. How about me vs. Rosenberger, Get Out, and everyone else who feels the need to defend this site against... little ol' me?
A bunch of message board guys against one man-- and yet I'm the one who is told that he looks like a fool. Ain't that rich?
If you'd bothered to read my post, you'd notice that I said that every time I come to this site, your ship is sinking further and further. That's the victory I claim, and as I said before-- I don't expect people like you to condcede the point.
So, what's the topic of the debate then? Should we debate about what you and your Patriot Posse have been going back and forth with me over for some time, namely this website's inability to reach even a modest goal? If that's the topic of the debate, then I have already won, by virtue of making it an issue.
Should we debate the hypocrisy of conservatives who embrace Arnold Schwarzenegger but decry Hollywood's "liberal elite"?
Should we debate the hypocrisy of Rush Limbaugh?
Should we debate how Democrats and Republicans are virtually one and the same nowadays?
Should we debate the Supreme Court upholding the 9th Circuit ruling concerning doctors writing out medical marijuana prescriptions?
Should we debate the meaning of the phrase "America: Love it or Leave it"?
Should we debate Bush's CIA leak, or his war on Iraq while North Korea calls us out?
A few questions: where is the debate going to be held? On neutral turf, I would assume. Yet somehow I suspect that it'll be on your turf. No matter.
Who will moderate the debate? That is, who is objective enough to perform such a task? Certainly no one I know and certainly no one you know...
Who will present the resolution, and who will decide when our opening statements, rebuttals, and conclusions are timed out?
That's when the real "beat down" (as you put it) begins, by the way-- everything I've done up until now has been a prelude. I'm just getting warmed up.
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As you probably know, by visiting other discussion forums, that debates do not necessarily result in a resolution. I certainly don't expect to agree with you, nor do I ever think you will agree with me.
You may have noticed on other sites, if you are not agreed with, your posts are likely to be deleted. You may have also noticed that your posts on this site have not, even though myself or others have not agreed with your statements.
Although there was very little money raised, the point that was made is that there were actually very few people who claimed that they hated America and what it stands for so bad that they wanted to leave. Others were looking for a free ticket to their vacation choice, and didn't meet the qualifying criteria. Those who "made the grade" suddenly had second thoughts, and backed away from the offer. There were indeed more funds available on a private level, those of us who were waiting for a qualified candidate to be selected before making the donation.
This is not about defending this site against "little 'ol you", simply because that is how I view you, as little. You make statements in your BLOG like you're all that, and you don't even begin to impress me, and I would suspect many other people you see as your followers see right through you. If you take some more time to view other posts, you will find there are many posters who have varying viewpoints who have freely discussed issues here.
Your post was read, but the ship is not sinking. The search for a qualified candidate has evidently been terminated quite some time ago, due to a lack of qualified candidates, and qualified candidates who backed out of the offer. This forum has been left open to discuss topics of whatever we choose. Yes, this includes you as well. This ship is a discussion forum, and is quite buoyant. This is not a right vs. left website, although there are several right vs. left topics.
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So, what's the topic of the debate then? Should we debate about what you and your Patriot Posse have been going back and forth with me over for some time, namely this website's inability to reach even a modest goal? If that's the topic of the debate, then I have already won, by virtue of making it an issue.
Should we debate the hypocrisy of conservatives who embrace Arnold Schwarzenegger but decry Hollywood's "liberal elite"?
Should we debate the hypocrisy of Rush Limbaugh?
Should we debate how Democrats and Republicans are virtually one and the same nowadays?
Should we debate the Supreme Court upholding the 9th Circuit ruling concerning doctors writing out medical marijuana prescriptions?
Should we debate the meaning of the phrase "America: Love it or Leave it"?
Should we debate Bush's CIA leak, or his war on Iraq while North Korea calls us out?
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A few questions: where is the debate going to be held? On neutral turf, I would assume. Yet somehow I suspect that it'll be on your turf. No matter.
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If "no matter", why bother with the question? I would like to think this is neutral turf, and it certainly isn't my turf, considering it is cyberspace. If you are feeling outnumbered, on behalf of myself and others in this forum, a personal invitation is offered for you to invite your friends here to help debate issues.
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Who will moderate the debate? That is, who is objective enough to perform such a task? Certainly no one I know and certainly no one you know...
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I would suspect if either knows, then it will be likely that no moderation will exist.
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Who will present the resolution, and who will decide when our opening statements, rebuttals, and conclusions are timed out?
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That would be the moderators job once again. I guess we'll have to work it out on our own.
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Blah Blah Blah Blah... All you had to say was "Yes, let's debate."
Since you didn't pick a topic, let me pull out the obvious one:
The war in Iraq.
Specifically: President Bush announced an end to fighting in Iraq earlier this year. This was before he requested $87 billion from Congress. Does the request for $87 billion put his former assurances in another light? Or is the request for &87 billion par for the course in terms of post-war nation-building?
I will let you start the debate with an opening statement. As soon as I receive notification of a reply, I will prepare and post my opening statement. After the openers, we will go back and forth, rebutting each others' statements. Finally, we will end the debate with closing arguments.
You may fire when ready, sir.
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Adding all this structure to the debates.............Mr. McGinty must be a lawyer...................
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I think we both know the 87 billion will be exceeded. Regardless of Bush's announcement, the fighting continues. Off the front, the battle will also continue, while decisions are made about who has the current interest in Iraq's finance to be involved in the rebuild.
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btw: I had to sign up again for this board... for some reason I was not allowed to log in.
Also: posting links is fine, but when am I going to get an opening statement from whomever wants to debate? And by 'opening statement', I mean exactly that: a paragraph (in the very least) that details ALL of the points you want to make in the course of debate.
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Usually, my e-mail service alerts me to when a reply has come in. For the last few posts, this has not been the case. Since I have a life that has nothing to do with this site, I haven't been responding.
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Bullshit. You are a liar and a fraud.
No one put a gun to your head, and told you that you had to respond to every post - that was your idea. You said that as long as someone was posting, you would keep answering.
But if you insist on ThenLeave answering your questions, then why don't you answer mine? Does your boss know of your plans to leave the nation? Yes or no?
Why don't you answer any of my questions or posts. (And an insult is not an answer - that just shows that your mind is not capable of anything but insults.) You have shown that you don't want to argue the points - you want to attack the messenger. And I've seen people like that before - we don't need you here. If you keep claiming that you are too busy, then go away, and don't come back.
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But every time I leave the site and come back after a while, I notice certain things. Like, the candidates list staying the same. Or the amount of money raised staying the same. And now, an administrator's note asking if it's worth it to keep the site going.
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The site found that the number of "verified" candidates kept going down - mostly because people like you were never serious about leaving. (And if you truly were serious about leaving America because you hate it........then why don't you leave? ThenLeave offered to help people leave - but there is no law whatsoever that says you cannot leave unless ThenLeave helps you.)
The "administrator's note" that you refer to was posted back in June........months before you came to ThenLeave, you idiot! One of your blogs claims that ThenLeave started to fold up after you decided to "tear us some new ones". Why don't you wake up, and look at the dates that things are posted before you make any claims about shutting us down?
I have been after ThenLeave, on and off, about updating the main site to reflect that we're mainly here for the chat - but do you know what? He has a real life that has nothing to do with this site. (Now where have I heard someone say something like that before????) So what I am hearing is this: It is OK for you to break promises that you made in writing just because you feel like it. But it is not OK for the site owner to live his life (he never promised to do otherwise) because you don't feel like allowing him to do so! Sounds really fair to me..................
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By the way: Thank you, Big Red, for pointing out Mr. Rosenberger's fanatical fervor in his line-by-line refutation of my post. Indeed, Rosenberger, I "got your goat" and put you on the defensive in a massive way... and all I had to do was post my thoughts. Maybe it was that line you posted at the end of every one of your posts, about defeating people with reason... maybe I took that to heart, and gave you a taste of your own medicine.
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I disagree, big time.
James Ledesma.......none of the liberals have ever gotten my goat. (Except for the pervert who raped some of my livestock..........was that you, James?) If you post a ton of false items - then I'll tend to post a ton of the truth. Don't lie, and I won't have to post the truth. Perhaps you were hoping that the site was already down.....and that you could look good on your own blog by feeding a bunch of lies with no one here to dispute with you. It must have been very disappointing to find that someone was actually here to dispute your claims. You are talking about me on your BLOG, and I am not talking about you on mine........so let's think about who is getting whose goat, shall we???????
You posted your thoughts, and I posted mine. You were wrong, and I was right - proven by the fact that you have not responded to the issues that I raised during my rebuttals. (If I was wrong......then why not correct me, rather than running away like a little baby!) Your words above were that my postings were a "line-by-line refutation" of your posts - and I thank you for that compliment - since "refutation" means "to prove wrong by argument or evidence : show to be false or erroneous".
Why would I be on the defensive in the first place, James? I'm posting my full name when I login. I'm not trying to hide behind an e-mail address name that tells no one who I am.......... If you are so darned proud of your own opinions, then why did someone else have to announce to the forum who you were? (My apologies to any allies who take this point personally.........but if you have nothing to fear within your ideas........you don't need a fancy login name.)
Where is BigRed now that you need him? He shot his mouth off once because someone dared to speak up for the site's owner - and then he disappeared again. Maybe he thinks that I might start listing his real name, address, etc.......and I'm thinking about it..........
As for my signature line - postings with "reason" is what Jim Lau is talking about. Not the easily refutable crap that you tend to specialize in.
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You have mentioned that your claims were all refuted (look it up in the dictionary), so why would I need to concede after you have admitted defeat?
You have not conceded formally.........and I guess that has something to say about how honorable you are, too!
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Yes, I would love to debate you and whomever feels the need to be debated. How about me vs. Rosenberger, Get Out, and everyone else who feels the need to defend this site against... little ol' me?
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"Little" is the word for it.
Why don't you start a new thread, and debate folks to your heart's content over there?
You have claimed on your BLOG that if that site goes down, that is ONE SMALL BUT IMPORTANT VICTORY for unpopular speech in this country. So perhaps someone should tell you that you are working against yourself. (Not very smart to do that......now is it?) I mean......you want this site to die - but you are offering to keep debates going to insure that it does not die. Are you thereby claiming to be "smarter" than us......while trying to help us keep the site going?
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Also: posting links is fine, but when am I going to get an opening statement from whomever wants to debate? And by 'opening statement', I mean exactly that: a paragraph (in the very least) that details ALL of the points you want to make in the course of debate.
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Why do any of us have to provide any points to debate? If you have something to say, then say it! Since you are not the owner of this site - then stop bossing people around.
Keep posting.........it helps this site survive!
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All I know is, when someone posts SIX replies to one post, in the span of two hours, then indeed my work is done.
Plus, those six replies were to a post that I had directed at Get Out.
You lose, buddy, no matter how you stack the cards.
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We have not lost here, even though you seem to be quite willing to accept some b.s. victory that has not been earned or achieved. This forum is alive and well, and will continue to function. If you are so intent to debate here, why don't YOU make an opening statement on any issue and show us that YOU have adequate knowledge to debate. I have read all your posts here, and all I see is that you are willing to post links, claim un-won victories, and argue with people about the way they answer posts. We have had plenty of people who have posted their comments about what they like or dislike about the website and the forum, and many have debated their points. Others, such as yourself so far, have come in, spewing their b.s. about how they don't like us and never actually get to a valid point, other than points that have already been made by others, particularily the liberal media (nbc, newsweek) So make your point, present an issue.
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All I know is, when someone posts SIX replies to one post, in the span of two hours, then indeed my work is done.
Plus, those six replies were to a post that I had directed at Get Out.
You lose, buddy, no matter how you stack the cards.
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All that I know is..........when I refute all of someone's points to an item, and they refuse to debate the item further - then they have not won.
Oh.......and if someone donates an incredible amount of space to my name in their on-line BLOG - and haven't even earned a mention on one of my sites........ then someone has gotten someone else's goat. Thanks for the ton of free publicity. I can now use your web site as an example of blatant discrimination against the handicapped. You don't lose very well, now, do you little boy?
Does your boss know that you spend company time on company machines to do your BLOG? (Thanks for confessing to that in writing, by the way. I look forward to talking to your boss about that.)
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Hey, I'm just here to help. Glad you appreciate the "publicity" you've been getting.
You know, that blog entry took me a whole ten minutes to write. I type fast, what can I say? As for space, I devote just as much of it to anything else that I find worth writing about. You should be flattered that I deemed it a sufficiently writable topic.
I defy you to find a disparaging remark about the handicapped in that entry. As far as I can tell, I mentioned that the character of "Don Rosenberger" was in a wheelchair. How is this making fun of the handicapped? To make fun of the handicapped, one has to make the affliction look ridiculous. All I did was describe a character, based on what I imagined the character to be like. By titling the entry "a little creative fiction", it is clear to anyone who reads it that the story is made up.
And you still haven't tried to make a point against MY debate topic, which was in regards to the $87 Billion from Congress. But I don't expect you to get back to that-- you're too busy trying to get me in trouble to actually follow your own rules. And that tells me that I got your goat metaphorically-- I don't know why you had the image of having sex with your livestock on your mind in the first place, unless my suspicions about you are true.
We can keep going back and forth over this until the metaphorical cows come in. "Are you gonna bark all day, little doggie, or are you gonna bite?"
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You have mentioned the 87 billion from congress, but have made no statements regarding your views, only links of what the liberal media thinks. What are your thoughts?? Who knows, maybe some of us will agree with you.
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I defy you to find a disparaging remark about the handicapped in that entry. As far as I can tell, I mentioned that the character of "Don Rosenberger" was in a wheelchair. How is this making fun of the handicapped? To make fun of the handicapped, one has to make the affliction look ridiculous. All I did was describe a character, based on what I imagined the character to be like. By titling the entry "a little creative fiction", it is clear to anyone who reads it that the story is made up.
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Copies have been made of entries here and on the BLOG. In both locations, you have accused me of committing illegal acts. (And on the other thread of this forum, you did absolutely nothing to say that it was "creative fiction".) So sedacious libel applies.
Why don't you make it possible for me to make entries to your BLOG, so that I can entertain you as much there as I do here? Or is it possible that you cannot tolerate anyone disagreeing with you at all?
And I don't have to find a "disparaging remark" on your site.........putz. Because everyone else that is involved with disability rights, and who sees your site, agrees with me. You cannot see it because you don't want to see it. It is not disparaging to you.......because you think it is the truth about disabled individuals. Show it to your boss, and ask him to login here, and send me a PM or e-mail about how nice it is.............
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I'm back again...
You need to bone up on your libel laws. You don't have a case. If you ever decided to do something as boneheaded and stupid as trying to file a libel case, suffice it to say that I have enough evidence-- on this very site-- of you doing the same to me, thus prompting a counter-suit.
However, no self-respecting judge in their right mind would hear a libel case based on blogs and message boards.
Just wanted to let you know that I haven't backed down-- I'm just doing what I've done since I found this place-- checking in occasionally, getting you mad, and laughing.
But just to show you that I'm not a monster, I sent a post to The Administrator, and he responded with a nice, decent reply. I fully expected that man to attack me-- after all, he started this site --but instead he showed that he was open-minded... unlike you, dear sir.
Anyway, I'll check back in two months and find three pages of replies from you, based on one or two sentences from me. And I'll laugh as I always do.
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You need to bone up on your libel laws. You don't have a case. If you ever decided to do something as boneheaded and stupid as trying to file a libel case, suffice it to say that I have enough evidence-- on this very site-- of you doing the same to me, thus prompting a counter-suit.
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Fine. Then just keep doing what you are doing. Because it only makes my case stronger. The more you deny that you did anything wrong........the stronger the case that you have done this discrimination on purpose.
Name-calling is not a basis for a case - but you have accused me of breaking into and using one of your e-mail accounts. That is a crime - and accusing me of doing so when you know that I haven't is also a crime. If you doubt that, just ask one of the policemen at the precinct down the street............
If you would like to be in court, then that suits me fine. Please file first, if you want to. You mentioned that a judge would not listen to such a case - but you must first realize that thousands of dollars in legal fees would accumulate before either of us made it before a judge. And if you are curious......the answer is that I can easily afford that amount to make a case. Can you? You might wish to laugh at me later, and let your BLOG readers know about how much money you have cost me in court for my loss. But it will cost you money, too, buddy. And I think that the costs will hurt you a lot more than they will hurt me.
You also need to bone up on your legal studies. You see, part of what you have done is discrimination against the handicapped. And there is no statute of limitations upon those actions. So I don't have to come after you right now.......I can wait until later, and take whatever savings you have built up between now and then. If you think that you can beat the rap, then just keep discriminating! I encourage it! Maybe you can hire "Baghdad Bob" to be your defence counsel:
And you need to also bone up on your libel law, James. Personal opinion is not libel. But stating in writing that I have committed a crime (messing with your e-mail account) is libelous if I can prove that I did not do it.
(And if you are curious, we have already subpoenaed the records from hotmail.com for your logins from that period, and can show that the only IP addresses that accessed your accounts were close to you, and not close to me.)
You need to study your libel laws. Try looking at this site: Slander and Libel Laws
So I'm not going to spend a lot of time here arguing with you over whether you are guilty. Because you are guilty. Work hard, and save as much money as you can - the more, the better! I hope you'll get a big laugh out of losing your money.
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I'm also waiting to hear from your boss - so that we can talk about your openly discriminatory behavior on office equipment that he owns. Maybe it is time for me to hire a private investigator - and seek you and your boss out, personally. Then I don't have to worry about him looking for me.........because I'll be looking for him!
And as I said above - I don't have to do it now.....or next week......or even next year. Because there is no statute of limitations on your actions.
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It all boils down to one very simple thing: freedom of speech. In my blog, I explicitly stated that it was a work of fiction. Any resemblance to persons living or dead is purely coincidental. This is a point I make to everyone who reads my bog. I am not a journalist, and therefore have no obligation to report hard facts.
The administrator of a rock band's website once read my blog, which referenced their band. He/she liked my piece and wanted to reproduce it on their blog. I said "Sure, as long as you run a disclaimer stating that it is entertainment, and not journalism." They haven't reproduced my entry yet, and they probably never will. Maybe if I had not demanded a disclaimer they would have published it as "fact". The disclaimer saves people a lot of time and energy.
The fact is, if you don't like what I say in my blog, don't visit it. If you want to comment on my blog, go right ahead. If I want to write a fictional story about a person whose name can be found via a simple Google search, that is up to me.
As for accusing you of a crime: I put forth a theory based purely on speculation, in a fictional context. If you didn't do it, then there's no problem, right? Who on this message board would take my side over yours? What are you so worried about? If I'd thought you were the culprit, I would've already called the cops on you.
Sounds like a guilty conscience to me.
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...and there hasn't been any donations in months.
It's not surprising, of course. At best, this concept was suited for non-success from the onset. At worst, the stunning magnitude of its utter failure is an indication that one should not try to keep up with the zeitgeists. The fact is, in another year, no one will care about who is more patriotic and what to do about terrorism.
In another year, we will all be back to caring only for ourselves.
I look forward to that.
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Geez, yet another person who doesnt bother to read the other threads before they post crap about the site being unsuccessful.
Hey Don, do you have the standard response ready to copy and paste?????
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Well.......considering how many times I have had to use the answer, I probably should develop a "standard" response to that kind of post - but I see that as more of the owner's problem, or one for the administrators. I'm just another poster.
Two main points:
1. The owner of this site did not intend to have anyone "sent away" against their will. The owner was tired of hearing people say that they hated America, and that they wanted to leave our nation - so he was offering to give them money to do it. No force intended or implied - ThenLeave was trying to help someone do what they claimed they wanted to do already.
This question has been posed before, and answered several times by several posters. (That is why WVUMedGuy was wondering if we had a standard response as yet - since it seems to be the first, and often the only, question that a newbie leftist asks on this forum.)
Look over other threads, and you will see that the question has been asked and answered before, and more than once. The last poster to make the challenge was chthonicplatypus, in a topic named Why the xenophobia? That thread should be relatively easy to find under the TOPIC listings when you look at the main page of the forum.
2. After months of making the challenge, the forum's owner found out that the folks who claimed to hate America were all talk, and no action. Time after time, a leftist turned down a chance to leave the United States, even when ThenLeave offered money to help them. (So the number of people on the "volunteer to leave" list kept shrinking.....) Therefore, ThenLeave ceased collecting money for the enterprise - and has donated the funds collected to a charity. This is why no money has been collected lately.
Note that the failure was not on the part of this site's owner - but upon the leftists who were claiming that they wanted to leave the country! If they had been serious about their claims, then some of them would have left. By not leaving, these leftists merely proved what the "regulars" on this forum knew already: America is a great country! Who would want to live anywhere else?
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I'm quite aware of the posts and threads-- I applied to be sent away months ago. Not only was I not added to your candidates list (which hasn't changed since I first applied) but I seriously doubted that you guys would be able to raise the money to send even ONE person away. I wrote this out in an e-mail, and of course I got no response from you guys. I see that my doubts were founded in solid reasoning.
I read about "Doug" whom you list as having "changed his mind" about leaving the country. Someone sent an e-mail in, saying that they would be happy to drive "Doug" to his desired location (it was in the continental U.S.) and save the site some money in the process. HOW CHEAP IS THAT? Not to mention the fact that anyone who would accept a ride from a person who most likely is intolerant of their political beliefs would have to be insane to do so.
No, I am not "Doug"-- I am Sex McGinty, and I've been checking up on you guys from time to time. Your high-faltuin' verbiage aside, there is no justification for this failure of a website.
Sold any American-flag-themed coffee mugs lately?
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McGinty...While I don't remember getting an e-mail specifically from you (there have been hundreds) maybe it was too full of ranting for us to spend time reading every word. We have received so many that start "Hey Asshole..." that we tend to tune out after a sentence or two. Sorry that I missed you though (ha-ha).
However, I have to agree with Don that this site was a success in that it proved (at some level) that this country shouldn't be hated by it's residents. This is the best country in the world. If you disagree with the state of the country...then change it. Don't whine like a child and do nothing.
PS: I have one of the coffee mugs and it is quite nice.
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Hey, mcginty: Now that I know a few more details, and you are claiming that e-mail has failed your purposes, I am now curious.........
Why do you hate America? Don't talk about Bush, or about side-issues - because the basis for getting money from ThenLeave was that you hate America itself, and wish to leave it. So why do you want to leave, and where do you want to go? (Perhaps part of the answer will reveal why you were not taken seriously as a candidate!)
You are claiming that ThenLeave didn't listen to you earlier, so here is your chance to have me listen to you now. How about some specifics on your case? I mean, if you are really that desperate to leave a nation that you hate - maybe we can still find a way to help you out........
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First of all, the thing I hate the most is how people like yourself are marginalizing people like myself, by drawing a line in the sand and saying "You are either for us or against us." That is the most anti-American thing I can imagine, but you wrap yourself around the Flag and tell anyone who dissents that they are wrong. That is not what America is about. If it weren't for political dissent, America would still be an English colony.
However, I also agree that people like yourself have the right to voice your opinions. Hell, the KKK has the right to voice their opinions, even if I don't agree with them. And, of course, I have the right to voice mine. That's what I love about America.
Now that I think about it, it's not the country I hate-- it's the tactics of people like you. Notice how I didn't say that I hate you in particular-- I don't know you, and for all I know you may be a nice person outside of your poltical beliefs. But just look at your conditions for listening to my reasons: don't mention Bush and the economy? Why do you not want to hear about that? It seems to me that you are living life with blinders on.
Anyway, I'd like a ticket to Amsterdam. Who knows? Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave. But I was hoping to go by the summer, and now it's Fall, and I was the one who had to come to you guys THREE TIMES already. And what about the other "candidates?" If they really have all changed their minds, as you claim, then why haven't you updated your site to reflect this? It seems to me that you have no faith in your own convictions. Therefore, anything you say to me at this point is entirely without credibilty.
I don't hate America, and I don't hate Americans in specific-- I hate the actions of ignorant Americans who make me feel ashamed for living under the same umbrella as them. You do not speak for me, just as I do not speak for you. But get real-- Iraq was a bad idea, and now my stepfather has to stay out there until May, instead coming home to his wife (my mother) and his kids in October like Bush promised. He's a reserve, and was proud to do his time, but if you ask me a real hero and a real patriot stays at home and raises their kids and takes care of his loved ones. That's all the proof I need from him to call him a hero.
How many friends and family do you have out there in Iraq? I'm assuming that you have at least one cousin or nephew who wishes he or she were home, indulging in the creature comforts that war-mongers like yourself take for granted.
I support the troops- read the L.A Times article from that soldier who is out in Iraq right now. I believe he used the words "biggest modern lie" to describe his participation in Operation Iraqi Freedom. I support the troops, because they don't want to be out there, fighting so that someone who is rich can get richer off of them.
Anyway, the minute you scrape up enough change from under your couch to get me on the plane to Amsterdam, please let me know ASAP. You may think I'm bluffing, but I guarantee you-- I will not change my mind. I think that's what you guys are afraid of, and I think that's why I've never been accepted as a candidate.
For the third time,
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ps: I'm sure the mugs are quite nice-- and I'm sure there's hundreds of them, sitting in unopened boxes, begging to be sold on eBay...
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Now that I think about it, it's not the country I hate-- it's the tactics of people like you. Notice how I didn't say that I hate you in particular-- I don't know you, and for all I know you may be a nice person outside of your poltical beliefs. But just look at your conditions for listening to my reasons: don't mention Bush and the economy? Why do you not want to hear about that? It seems to me that you are living life with blinders on.
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OK - there is a lot of hate in your life........I get that part of it.
But I hope that you can see in your first sentence above why you were not taken seriously as a candidate. That is, the basis of the "candidate list" was for people who really, truly "HATE AMERICA" - and you confess above that it is not our nation that you hate. If a candidate were to simply hate some of the people in America - then almost every single American would be a candidate, right?? But the point was, ThenLeave was looking for folks who had a legitimate hatred for the nation, and wanted to leave it due to their hatred. You may have wanted to go on a vacation.......but you didn't want to go to Amsterdam because you hate the United States of America. So you must have had another reason.........and that is probably what eliminated you.
As for the end of your paragraph - you are trying too hard to read between lines that aren't there. My tactic here is very straight-forward. You may tell us how much you hate our president to your heart's content on the other threads - or even this thread, if it makes you feel better. (This forum emphasizes freedom of speech, after all.) But you missed the point of my question. I didn't want to hear that you wanted to leave America because you were anti-Bush (even if you are) - because anti-Bush is not the same as anti-American. And being out of work gives you a possible reason to hate the economy - but anti-unemployment is not the same as being anti-American. So perhaps my question was taken as being a tad "rude" - but the purpose I was after was to learn why you were definitely "anti-American", instead of being "anti-anything-else". So you were thinking that I was telling you to shut-up, and I was not. Rather, I was trying to find out specifically why you hated our nation - and it turns out that you do not. (My "blinders" were to make sure I wouldn't miss the reasons in a sea of answers that were not anti-American. I hope that you can see that now.)
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First of all, the thing I hate the most is how people like yourself are marginalizing people like myself, by drawing a line in the sand and saying "You are either for us or against us." That is the most anti-American thing I can imagine, but you wrap yourself around the Flag and tell anyone who dissents that they are wrong. That is not what America is about. If it weren't for political dissent, America would still be an English colony.
However, I also agree that people like yourself have the right to voice your opinions. Hell, the KKK has the right to voice their opinions, even if I don't agree with them. And, of course, I have the right to voice mine. That's what I love about America.
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I think that the important part is to clarify what is being said on this site. The point ThenLeave makes is that you either want to live in this nation, or you wish to leave - and if you hate America enough to leave it......then help is offered. Whether you agree with us or not on all points is not the issue on this forum.
I would actually appreciate it if you would take your opinion to the hard-core "leftist" forums on the web, and make the same complaint that you just did. You see, if I were to dare to say something conservative on many liberal forums, then I would be instantly banned from that forum. By your argument above - doesn't that make liberal forums "unAmerican"? Perhaps you should go and tell them about this............... The fact that you can still login and yell at us basically lets you know that this site is very pro-freedom-of-speech. I'd urge you to think about that point.
Once again, you have mentioned a reason that you love America - so I will remind you that to be a verified candidate, you have to hate America, and desire to leave the country because of your hate.
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So, in other words, you're just waiting for the one person in America who hates it more than people in other
countries...
As far as lame excuses go, that's Number One.
I like how you say I have a lot of hate in my life, then you go on to say that I don't hate America enough.
Just admit that you're cheap, and that your site is a dud, and I'll be on my way.
I knew, from the first e-mail, when I actually went out of my way to say I hated America (because at the time I was out of work and all that), that this was a farce. Every response you've given me confirms this.
In fact, thanks to you, I won $50 from a friend who bet me that this time I was going to get sent away for good. I bet him that you guys had no intention of sending anyone in the first place, and I was right.
I'd spend the money on some of those mugs, but the only problem is I'd be sending money to you.
As for vacation, who takes year long vacations? I certainly don't. You said on your site ANYWHERE in the world, as long as it wasn't a terrorist-sponsoring country.
Anyway, I'll keep responding to your posts as long as you keep posting them. But you know you've lost, right? Despite your attempts to sound rational and civilized, the rest of your site speaks for itself. Everyone I have given the URL to-- even people who once felt the way you do-- have felt nauseated by the crappy stench of your version of patriotism.
And are you going to give back the paltry $176.00 that you somehow managed to raise? Or was that out of your own pocket? Better yet-- you raised the money, and now you're claiming that it's yours.
Go to www.modestneeds.org-- maybe the guy at that site will lend you the money to send someone away.
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Don't split hairs here-- you people at this site are the ones saying "for or against." And since I am against what you are for, that makes me an America-hater. Therefore, by your own divisive logic, you MUST send me to Amsterdam, because I am against you and your "America-loving" crew.
Yes, it's black-and-white extremist logic, but it's that very same logic that enables people to say "If you don't like it here, then leave!"
On that note: I'd like to leave on October 24th of this year-- that's the day after my mother's birthday. She'd be terribly displeased if I missed her birthday. I don't want to fly on United or American, though-- something about those airlines gives me the creeps...
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Anyway, I'd like a ticket to Amsterdam. Who knows? Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave. But I was hoping to go by the summer, and now it's Fall, and I was the one who had to come to you guys THREE TIMES already. And what about the other "candidates?" If they really have all changed their minds, as you claim, then why haven't you updated your site to reflect this? It seems to me that you have no faith in your own convictions. Therefore, anything you say to me at this point is entirely without credibilty.
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First - about the site. I'm just a poster here, like you are. So I have no control whatsoever over the site. Please don't blame me for not updating a site that I don't own. It isn't your fault that the site isn't getting updated, either, is it?? I agree with you on this point - if the site is actually taking a step away from offering money to folks who want to leave - then the main web page should be updated to reflect this, and avoid any confusions on the point. But all that I can do is to urge ThenLeave to do so.......that is the extent of my power. Note for emphasis: You have not come to me three times already - I am just a poster like you are. Feel free to send a PM (Personal Message) to ThenLeave about the issue - and maybe he can get to it when his work allows him to.
But the point that I was making earlier was that I recall a time when the site reported having twenty-six candidates. The number on the main page is now listing nine candidates. So the site has changed in the past to reflect the number of folks who claimed to be "serious" about hating America, and wanting to leave it. Apparently, the reason 26 people became candidates, and the number dropped to 9, was that at least 15 of the candidates did not truly hate America enough to leave it - or changed their minds when they found that ThenLeave was serious about helping them leave.
I should also note that to become a "verified candidate", a person was supposed to guarantee ThenLeave that they would stay out of the country for a year. This was to measure their seriousness in leaving - as I'm sure many people might be asking for money just so that they could take a quick vacation for less money. And the point of this web site was to tell folks that if they were preaching enough hate to leave America and wanting to leave it - then you were going to stay out for a while.
Now let's go over the requirements again. Do you hate America the nation? (Nope.) Did you promise to leave for at least a year? (Nope. "Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave" is not the same as a promise to stay out for at least a year, and I think you know that.) Do you have an American passport, shots, and other things taken care of so that you really CAN leave America? I hope that you know that you cannot just go to an airport, and go to another nation in Europe with no paperwork! From what I can see........you were not put on the candidate's list for legitimate reasons - and if you had complaints before - you should have entered them on this forum back then, instead of waiting for your desired date to leave to expire first.
Finally, I'll remind you again that I'm just a poster here - putting my two cents in, just like you are. So don't hate me for my opinions. And don't blame me for the way the site is run - that isn't my job. (I'm getting a little tired of hearing that my postings have no credibility because I dare to post items on a site that I don't own!)
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I don't hate America, and I don't hate Americans in specific-- I hate the actions of ignorant Americans who make me feel ashamed for living under the same umbrella as them. You do not speak for me, just as I do not speak for you. But get real-- Iraq was a bad idea, and now my stepfather has to stay out there until May, instead coming home to his wife (my mother) and his kids in October like Bush promised. He's a reserve, and was proud to do his time, but if you ask me a real hero and a real patriot stays at home and raises their kids and takes care of his loved ones. That's all the proof I need from him to call him a hero.
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And the first sentence tell you why you haven't been a verified candidate on this site. If you don't have a legitimate hatred for America - then you aren't in the list of folks who truly want to leave because they hate America - it is that simple.
The issue of Iraq is one that we can debate - but being anti-Iraq does not make you anti-American. (If you were waiting for someone who is "conservative" to say that......now you have heard me say it!)
If you didn't know it, mcginty, I am a retired Army officer. So I understand what you are saying about "doing your time", and "being away from your family". If your father is like me - then I know he does not enjoy being away from you any more than you like it! I'm not going to debate your definition of "hero" - because it is a correct one.
But you also pointed out above that dissent made the American nation. Do you understand that General Washington and others did not simply say, "we disagree", and instantly became a nation?! They had to take up arms for what they thought was right. If they had not taken up arms and fought, and spent a lot of time away from their families, then America would not exist. And now is a great time to remind you - no one on Earth can tell exactly how long a war will last, and how much effort it will take to stabilize a nation after it has been defeated. Got it? No one! Folks who tell you that they know such things have never been in uniform. (At least, I hope that is the case!) You are blaming President Bush for something that is beyond his control. He should not have "promised" a return by October when that kind of thing cannot be guaranteed. We had a lot of criticism for President Bush, Sr. on Iraq - for starting a war against Saddam, and not finishing it. Now that we have finished a war against Saddam - I would also propose that it makes sense to do our very best to insure that a viable, democratic government be in power (and supported) so that we don't have to go back in your generation, or in your children's. As with many other jobs, you can choose to do the job right, or resign yourself to having to do it over, later.
Pardon me if this point is too annoying - but it is also true that if you are not willing to serve - then you should not join the Army. It is that simple. "I want to defend my nation......but only on weekends........and only in my home town!" Now you know that such a thing is ridiculous, don't you? So I would also claim that part of the anger which you have should be directed at your own stepfather. He made the decision to serve, and no one held a gun to his head while he signed the papers........... If not Iraq, it could have been North Korea. If not Korea, maybe Cuba. But nobody is guaranteed a "100% peacetime" tour of duty. Not your stepfather, not my cousin, and not me. If you don't want the risk, then get out of the uniform. If you put on the uniform - then follow orders - and don't moan about promises that were never made. It is that simple.
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I support the troops- read the L.A Times article from that soldier who is out in Iraq right now. I believe he used the words "biggest modern lie" to describe his participation in Operation Iraqi Freedom. I support the troops, because they don't want to be out there, fighting so that someone who is rich can get richer off of them.
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For the record, the richest person in Iraq was Saddam Hussein - and he isn't getting any richer right now......... He lived in billion-dollar palaces while most of his people didn't even know about indoor plumbing. I'm not sure which "rich person getting richer" you are talking about - I can only be sure that it isn't Saddam or his family. With the rebuilding in Iraq - maybe all of the people get wealthier, since they won't be building palaces any longer - maybe they can afford some toilets, and training in proper sanitation, so the people end up better off and healthier.
A soldier who says what he thinks is not necessarily providing bona-fide facts. After world war II, there were a lot of conspiracy theorists who said that Hitler was still alive in Argentina! (Yes, veterans were making these reports!) But reading that in one of the papers every month did not make it true! And during the war, all of the media reported General Patton as saying that America and Britain would rule the post-war world. Point one: Yes, he really said it! Point two: It wasn't true - as the Soviets had something to say about it! So a three-star General could be wrong in what he thinks and says, but the guy interviewed in Iraq must certainly be accurate - isn't that obvious? (Sarcasm intended.)
You may be quoting one article, and perhaps your own step-dad - but you might just be reaching to claim that you are speaking for every single soldier in Iraq. Didn't you just claim that there isn't a single soldier in Iraq who is serving his nation without complaint? Am I the only one who suspects that scuh a claim isn't accurate????.........
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Anyway, the minute you scrape up enough change from under your couch to get me on the plane to Amsterdam, please let me know ASAP. You may think I'm bluffing, but I guarantee you-- I will not change my mind. I think that's what you guys are afraid of, and I think that's why I've never been accepted as a candidate.
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I don't own the site, and I don't administer it - so quit assuming that I run the place - I do not. You have heard me refer to him before - the owner is ThenLeave - that isn't the name of the site, it is the login name of the site owner. He may have more than one administrator, but I don't know that story. The point is - if you have something personal to say to ThenLeave - then do so. But quit blaming the rest of us in a hissy-fit when you didn't get your way. I never offered to give anyone any money - and I'm tired of being treated as though I did.
I am not the person who decides who is a "verified candidate" - but as a common poster, I think that I've pointed out some of the reasons that you were not made one. Yelling at me as though I personally made the decision on you, and did it deliberately to screw you, is ridiculous. "You guys" is lumping me in with other people, and I don't necessarily enjoy being blamed for something that I didn't do.
You were filing a complaint on the forum about not being a candidate - and I confess it freely - I was curious as to your circumstances. I just wondered if I could figure out why you were not one of the verified candidates. I stated why it is possible, but I'm not the authority, to be sure.
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So, in other words, you're just waiting for the one person in America who hates it more than people in other
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As far as lame excuses go, that's Number One.
I like how you say I have a lot of hate in my life, then you go on to say that I don't hate America enough.
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I'm not waiting for anything. I have no more power here than you do.
The point is: folks were saying that they legitimately hated America, and wanted to leave it for that reason. You have freely confessed that you are not one of these people, so I wonder about your term "lame excuses". If you weren't really one of those people - then why did you even apply? You are calling the site owner a liar - when you were one to start with! Your application said, "I really hate America" - and now you are saying, "No, I love America for several reasons!" You should make up your mind which side of fence you are going to be standing on........... And if "I love America" is what you are saying - then that is the point I think that our site owner was trying to make. That is, the folks who say that they truly hate America are full of hot air - they do not hate America, and they do not hate it enough to leave it for that reason. So you want to travel, so what? If hate isn't the reason - then be quiet.
I have no doubt at all that you are a person who wants to go overseas, and you want to find a way to force someone else to pay for it. But the fact that you cannot tell the truth to this site's owner is not my problem. Get a job.......keep a job........and don't bitch to me if you cannot afford to do all of the things that you want to do - because I cannot afford all of my dreams, either.
Finally - you have a lot of hate in your life - but that does not mean that any of it is toward our nation. In fact, I sense a great deal of hate toward me.........and all I have done is tried to figure out what in the heck you were talking about. Lots of hate......no good reason......
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I never made you a guarantee, buddy. And it isn't my site.
But since you bring it up, which lawyer were you planning to hire to write up the contract by which you would guarantee not to return to America for a year? After saying, "I really hate America, so I need to be a candidate!", and then saying, "Well, I don't really hate this nation!" - are you claiming now that anyone should be taking your word for anything, Mr. Ledesma? If I were running the thing, I'd expect a written contract. You know, something that explained in hard words what penalty would be applied to you if you ended up lying..........most certainly more money than I'd be paying to get you over there......so that you'd pay more money to come home than you would to stay.......you know.......something FAIR.
And don't bother responding to that.......I'm sure that your answer goes something like, "just trust me", and if you decide to wimp out and come home early.......that's just my tough stuff, right? People who have money need to be "responsible" toward you, and give you free money - but the reverse is never true about you being responsible, right? That is "only if you feel like it......"
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I knew, from the first e-mail, when I actually went out of my way to say I hated America (because at the time I was out of work and all that), that this was a farce. Every response you've given me confirms this.
In fact, thanks to you, I won $50 from a friend who bet me that this time I was going to get sent away for good. I bet him that you guys had no intention of sending anyone in the first place, and I was right.
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So what I am guessing as another poster on the forum is the same as what the site owner is thinking..............maybe I could sell that talent to the government!
Yes......you went out of your way to say you hated America, and now you say that you lied! So now, of course, you have the right to question everyone else's credibility.......because, after all, "it takes one to know one"!
Please identify your friend, so that I can talk to him - because he doesn't owe you $50 bucks. Anything that I am saying as just another poster is no proof whatsoever as to what the site owner "intended" to do. If you keep that money, James, you are guilty of fraud. To prove that someone "did not have an intention" in court, you need to do more than report what someone else on the forum has said, and you know it. So what did you bet on......really......? Whether you would get sent is a different bet entirely than if the owner really "intended to send someone" who wanted to leave the nation.
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As for vacation, who takes year long vacations? I certainly don't. You said on your site ANYWHERE in the world, as long as it wasn't a terrorist-sponsoring country.
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My point exactly - and that is why folks would require a written contract to make it official. Otherwise, you could say, "I never agreed to go for a year", just like you said, "I really don't hate America......". The reason for the one-year requirement was to avoid a bunch of applications from folks who just wanted a free plane ride - and planned to come home right after their "vacation". As you have noted over and over.......some people lie.
I don't think that there is a dispute over Amsterdam, James, but like I said, I am not the person who makes any of those decisions. I hope that you understand that part of the situation is whether a nation would accept you - and that was what ThenLeave should have made more clear. For example, some folks don't think that North Korea sponsors terrorism..........but whether folks feel that way or not.......the point is that that nation does not have a tourism industry - you cannot get into North Korea without an explicit invitation to get in. So even if you wanted to go there.......no one could get you in unless the nation wanted to see you. The Netherlands is a lot easier to get into - so I don't see that as a problem.
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And are you going to give back the paltry $176.00 that you somehow managed to raise? Or was that out of your own pocket? Better yet-- you raised the money, and now you're claiming that it's yours.
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There is a thread labelled, "IMPORTANT QUESTION FROM ADMINISTRATOR" - started by ThenLeave. This is where the site's owner identified that he was giving up on the prospect of sending anyone out of America, because he couldn't find anyone who was serious. (His claim - not mine.)
The plan was to donate the money raised to a charity - but I don't think that the owner ever told us where the money ended up - maybe we can encourage him on that point, and get the information.
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Anyway, I'll keep responding to your posts as long as you keep posting them. But you know you've lost, right? Despite your attempts to sound rational and civilized, the rest of your site speaks for itself. Everyone I have given the URL to-- even people who once felt the way you do-- have felt nauseated by the crappy stench of your version of patriotism.
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And despite my health problems, I'll keep trying to tell folks what I think as well. And I haven't lost - because there was nothing to win. I don't enter my opinion to win anything. This isn't a debate at old Cleveland High School - where you might get points for BS, Jimmy.
I won't debate about the main web site - as you are not the first to have read it as saying something differently than was intended. That is why we have so many threads that start out yelling at us, and end up a lot calmer. Maybe we can get ThenLeave to update it for clarity.....one last time.
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Don't split hairs here-- you people at this site are the ones saying "for or against." And since I am against what you are for, that makes me an America-hater. Therefore, by your own divisive logic, you MUST send me to Amsterdam, because I am against you and your "America-loving" crew.
Yes, it's black-and-white extremist logic, but it's that very same logic that enables people to say "If you don't like it here, then leave!"
On that note: I'd like to leave on October 24th of this year-- that's the day after my mother's birthday. She'd be terribly displeased if I missed her birthday. I don't want to fly on United or American, though-- something about those airlines gives me the creeps...
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I'm not splitting hairs - I'm saying what I think as another poster on the forum - why does that annoy you so much? The point is that "American hater" comes from the heart - and not from someone else's opinion of you. A black person saying "racist" does not make someone a racist - but acting as a racist makes someone a racist. It is that simple. What seems to make you angry is when other people behave like they want to.......and say how they feel, instead of behaving the way you believe we should behave. Doesn't that make you look kinda "prejudiced"? I mean........"I know how you think"......"I know how you feel"......."I know what 'you people' do in such situations" - that is prejudiced - and if I said it to a person of a different race, I'm sure that they would be mad about it. James Ledesma doesn't have any more rights than anyone else............so quit acting as though other people are less than you, mentally.
No one has ever said, "If you don't like it here, then leave!" What the owner has said is, "If you hate America, and want to leave it - maybe we can help." You see, you are claiming that leaving the nation is our idea - and it is supposed to be the idea of the person who is leaving. Now by your own "divisive logic", no one has to send you anywhere - because you claim it is 100% the owner's decision, and no one else's. And if you truly believe that, then you should shut up - because it is his decision, and no one else's. Now let me take it out of your words, and put it into my own - since I'm not part of site ownership. "The site owner is the boss. He does what he wants, and you are not his boss. If you have a dispute that is valid - hire an attorney. That is how you actually "win" this kind of thing. If you want to prove that you are right - then take him to court and prove it. Anything less is pure BS."
Speaking of "black and white extremist logic" - you said that you wanted to go to Amsterdam this summer.......so why are you still here? Pardon my sarcasm, but you really don't strike me as being very serious about leaving if you are still in America months after you absolutely, positively, had to go.......... And now you bring up your mother's birthday - what does that have to do with anything? If ThenLeave had sent you to Amsterdam for a year in June.......then you wouldn't have been here for her birthday......would you? So it didn't matter before, and you said so.......so why does it matter now? People in their late-20's or early-30's are adults now - so guess what? Your mommy should be able to live without you there this year - just like you planned for yourself when you asked to leave this summer, right? You graduated from high school eleven years ago - so you do a few things without mommy's permission, right? (If you could afford a round trip flight to visit mommy for her birthday - then you can afford your own one-way ticket to Amsterdam - so go! And stop whining......)
And all of the sudden, you want to pick your airline - my, oh, my! I thought that ThenLeave was the guy who made that decision. There is no guarantee anywhere on the site, stated or implied, that the person leaving gets to choose the transportation company. Sounds like you are just setting yourself up for another, "They won't do it right!" bitch-and-moan session about the decisions. So you want to leave, but only 100% on your terms, whether that was put in writing or not - and you want to exclude two of the airlines that provide the shortest flights at the best prices. (Yes, I checked.) From what I'm seeing - you don't seem to want to go - or you would have gone already. This thread is just another "finger pointing exercise" - where you blame someone else for your own wimpy little ability to not do what you want.
(Where do you work? Have you told your employer of your plans to leave the country next month, or are you lying about that to stay in good with the boss?)
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Well, I have taken a break for a couple of days - are you going to answer, or not??????????
(I beg your pardon if you have been taken out by health reasons, like I do sometimes. But it seems that your fire on this thread has been extinguished. Has it?)
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donrosenberger, you state repeatedly that this is not your site, that you don't make the decisions, that you are just a common poster. Then you go on to explain in almost three pages of posts what the point of this site is and why mcginty did not qualify for the trip out of the country. Can't blame him for being confused. Why don't you let the site's owner speak for himself? If he can be bothered.
Talk about beating a dead horse. You are all over this board speaking for the owner. Why don't you just get over it and move on with your life?
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So.............
Basically, if someone says anything to criticize the owner of the forum, then they are allowed to do that, because of the ethic called "freedom of speech".
But if anyone wishes to support the site owner, and tells someone that they are "mistaken" in their twisted beliefs and criticisms, then they are not allowed to do that....... And the reason for this is simple enough: it is because BigRed now speaks as the owner of the site, and makes all of the decisions. Huh????????
Three points:
1. sexmcginty stated that he would reply to every post, as long as we kept posting. So where is he? I am not the site's owner - but I have the same freedom of speech as anyone else. Leftists who do not believe in freedom of speech for all should not come here preaching about freedom of speech. (I have the firm belief that if sexmcginty had spent five pages, and 50 posts, making criticism of the site owner - then BigRed would not have said a thing about it. Sounds like a clear case of discrimination to me.........................)
2. I'm still anxious to hear as to whether James Ledesma (sexmcginty) has notified his employer of his plans to leave the nation. I mean........if he is truly serious about departure for at least a year........shouldn't his boss know about it, so that James can be replaced at work? I can hear the silence....................... But somehow - I'm sure that this "silence" means that he can come back later, and claim that he did not lose the argument. So get the gist - if you say that you are going to answer every point - and then run away to hide - then you are not a truly "verified candidate". When you run away from the effort to verify you, even when it is conducted by other posters, then you're not a real candidate, and anyone reading the forum can see it.
3. Everyone else has stopped discussing this point - so why are you here, offering your two cents way too late? To quote another poster on the forum: "Talk about beating a dead horse........ Why don't you just get over it and move on with your life?"
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I am not stopping the site owner from doing any speaking. The site owner has the same freedom of speech as any other poster. So perhaps the site owner believes that I am telling the truth.....or the site owner would take the time to post a statement saying that I am wrong, now wouldn't he??? (That is the argument posters use when they criticize the site owner, now isn't it? You like it when the argument works for you.......so get used to it when the same argument works against you!)
Now on the same line of your argument........why are you even here? Why can't you leave things alone, and let sexmcginty speak for himself? If James still has a point to make, then let him do it! If it is wrong for me to help one side of the conversation, then it is wrong for you to chime in on the other side .........and that is by your own rules, and not because I said so.
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BigRed...Don does a great job of speaking for what this site is about. He expresses my views (as the real site owner) quite well. I see no point in stating my views if they have already been expressed. I stated a long time ago that this forum was built for users of the site only. I did not want to get involved...if you have a question for me...try the e-mail link.
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Now that I think about it, it's not the country I hate.
I don't hate America, and I don't hate Americans in specific.
Anyway, I'd like a ticket to Amsterdam. Who knows? Maybe I'll go there and never want to leave. But I was hoping to go by the summer, and now it's Fall, and I was the one who had to come to you guys THREE TIMES already.
All statements made by sexmcginty.
You must hate America to qualify for the offer.
What part of that don't you understand?
You can ask as many times as you want, but you might want to consider www.freevacationairfare.com
Then leave is not about handing out airline tickets to every person that asks.
YOU MUST MEET THE CRITERIA FOR THE OFFER.
You have PROVEN in your posts that you do NOT qualify.
What I'm trying to understand is WHY there are so many people claiming to hate America when there is a possibility for a free ticket, but later say they don't hate America or it's people?
Maybe you are just mad because your attempt to get a free ticket without the qualifications has failed.
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Well........here's my two cents:
It appears that sexmcginty and others have made a rampant assumption. That is, they hate free speech - and specifically, what ThenLeave has to say. And as people who hate free speech - they assume that anyone who disagrees with them must be unAmerican.
Now they transfer this assumption incorrectly to ThenLeave, and claim that if they disagree with the site in any way, then they must be viewed as unAmerican. This web site does not do this assessment, the leftists do this incorrectly to themselves - and since they oppose free speech, they detest it when one of us points out that their self-assessment is incorrect!
You may have noticed that BigRed has put his two cents in as well - basically, telling me that the only people who should be on the discussion forum are the site owner and the people who oppose him. That is fairly one-sided logic, but I seem to recall that BigRed claimed to be a lawyer. So perhaps the one-sided logic should not surprise me coming from that profession.
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Usually, my e-mail service alerts me to when a reply has come in. For the last few posts, this has not been the case. Since I have a life that has nothing to do with this site, I haven't been responding.
But every time I leave the site and come back after a while, I notice certain things. Like, the candidates list staying the same. Or the amount of money raised staying the same. And now, an administrator's note asking if it's worth it to keep the site going.
By the way: Thank you, Big Red, for pointing out Mr. Rosenberger's fanatical fervor in his line-by-line refutation of my post. Indeed, Rosenberger, I "got your goat" and put you on the defensive in a massive way... and all I had to do was post my thoughts. Maybe it was that line you posted at the end of every one of your posts, about defeating people with reason... maybe I took that to heart, and gave you a taste of your own medicine.
I don't expect you to concede: only an honorable opponent would do that.
I suspect that this will be my last post, not because I have nothing left to say, but because I don't think this site or this message board will even be here the next time I visit it.
Thanks for the memories...
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If you had actually taken the time to read other posts on this site, you will notice that Don Rosenbereger answers almost all posts in that same line by line manner. You have not "gotten his goat". You have merely received the "standard response".
Also, the thread from the administrator is not a new post. It is a post which has been made "sticky" to put it at the top of the list so the liberals can find it. We were hoping you would look at the date and be able to figure that out.
If you look at the bottom of the screen underneath the spot that you type your reply, you must check the box behind "get notifications when someone replies?" in order for your e-mail service to do the right thing.
You seem to be quite eager to claim a victory which hasn't been won. (not even close!!) The only thing you've been able to accomplish is to make yourself look like a fool if front of your BLOG friends that are supposed to be watching you "beat down" ThenLeave. Your random musings and lack of substance in your posts shows everyone that you have not taken the time to research what you are trying to oppose.
We have, however, extended an invitation for you to debate with us if you like. Just set your arrogant attitude aside & we can get to business.
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Yes, I would love to debate you and whomever feels the need to be debated. How about me vs. Rosenberger, Get Out, and everyone else who feels the need to defend this site against... little ol' me?
A bunch of message board guys against one man-- and yet I'm the one who is told that he looks like a fool. Ain't that rich?
If you'd bothered to read my post, you'd notice that I said that every time I come to this site, your ship is sinking further and further. That's the victory I claim, and as I said before-- I don't expect people like you to condcede the point.
So, what's the topic of the debate then? Should we debate about what you and your Patriot Posse have been going back and forth with me over for some time, namely this website's inability to reach even a modest goal? If that's the topic of the debate, then I have already won, by virtue of making it an issue.
Should we debate the hypocrisy of conservatives who embrace Arnold Schwarzenegger but decry Hollywood's "liberal elite"?
Should we debate the hypocrisy of Rush Limbaugh?
Should we debate how Democrats and Republicans are virtually one and the same nowadays?
Should we debate the Supreme Court upholding the 9th Circuit ruling concerning doctors writing out medical marijuana prescriptions?
Should we debate the meaning of the phrase "America: Love it or Leave it"?
Should we debate Bush's CIA leak, or his war on Iraq while North Korea calls us out?
A few questions: where is the debate going to be held? On neutral turf, I would assume. Yet somehow I suspect that it'll be on your turf. No matter.
Who will moderate the debate? That is, who is objective enough to perform such a task? Certainly no one I know and certainly no one you know...
Who will present the resolution, and who will decide when our opening statements, rebuttals, and conclusions are timed out?
That's when the real "beat down" (as you put it) begins, by the way-- everything I've done up until now has been a prelude. I'm just getting warmed up.
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As you probably know, by visiting other discussion forums, that debates do not necessarily result in a resolution. I certainly don't expect to agree with you, nor do I ever think you will agree with me.
You may have noticed on other sites, if you are not agreed with, your posts are likely to be deleted. You may have also noticed that your posts on this site have not, even though myself or others have not agreed with your statements.
Although there was very little money raised, the point that was made is that there were actually very few people who claimed that they hated America and what it stands for so bad that they wanted to leave. Others were looking for a free ticket to their vacation choice, and didn't meet the qualifying criteria. Those who "made the grade" suddenly had second thoughts, and backed away from the offer. There were indeed more funds available on a private level, those of us who were waiting for a qualified candidate to be selected before making the donation.
This is not about defending this site against "little 'ol you", simply because that is how I view you, as little. You make statements in your BLOG like you're all that, and you don't even begin to impress me, and I would suspect many other people you see as your followers see right through you. If you take some more time to view other posts, you will find there are many posters who have varying viewpoints who have freely discussed issues here.
Your post was read, but the ship is not sinking. The search for a qualified candidate has evidently been terminated quite some time ago, due to a lack of qualified candidates, and qualified candidates who backed out of the offer. This forum has been left open to discuss topics of whatever we choose. Yes, this includes you as well. This ship is a discussion forum, and is quite buoyant. This is not a right vs. left website, although there are several right vs. left topics.
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So, what's the topic of the debate then? Should we debate about what you and your Patriot Posse have been going back and forth with me over for some time, namely this website's inability to reach even a modest goal? If that's the topic of the debate, then I have already won, by virtue of making it an issue.
Should we debate the hypocrisy of conservatives who embrace Arnold Schwarzenegger but decry Hollywood's "liberal elite"?
Should we debate the hypocrisy of Rush Limbaugh?
Should we debate how Democrats and Republicans are virtually one and the same nowadays?
Should we debate the Supreme Court upholding the 9th Circuit ruling concerning doctors writing out medical marijuana prescriptions?
Should we debate the meaning of the phrase "America: Love it or Leave it"?
Should we debate Bush's CIA leak, or his war on Iraq while North Korea calls us out?
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A few questions: where is the debate going to be held? On neutral turf, I would assume. Yet somehow I suspect that it'll be on your turf. No matter.
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If "no matter", why bother with the question? I would like to think this is neutral turf, and it certainly isn't my turf, considering it is cyberspace. If you are feeling outnumbered, on behalf of myself and others in this forum, a personal invitation is offered for you to invite your friends here to help debate issues.
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Who will moderate the debate? That is, who is objective enough to perform such a task? Certainly no one I know and certainly no one you know...
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I would suspect if either knows, then it will be likely that no moderation will exist.
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That would be the moderators job once again. I guess we'll have to work it out on our own.
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Blah Blah Blah Blah... All you had to say was "Yes, let's debate."
Since you didn't pick a topic, let me pull out the obvious one:
The war in Iraq.
Specifically: President Bush announced an end to fighting in Iraq earlier this year. This was before he requested $87 billion from Congress. Does the request for $87 billion put his former assurances in another light? Or is the request for &87 billion par for the course in terms of post-war nation-building?
I will let you start the debate with an opening statement. As soon as I receive notification of a reply, I will prepare and post my opening statement. After the openers, we will go back and forth, rebutting each others' statements. Finally, we will end the debate with closing arguments.
You may fire when ready, sir.
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Adding all this structure to the debates.............Mr. McGinty must be a lawyer...................
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I think we both know the 87 billion will be exceeded. Regardless of Bush's announcement, the fighting continues. Off the front, the battle will also continue, while decisions are made about who has the current interest in Iraq's finance to be involved in the rebuild.
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http://www.commondreams.org/headlines03/1027-05.htm
btw: I had to sign up again for this board... for some reason I was not allowed to log in.
Also: posting links is fine, but when am I going to get an opening statement from whomever wants to debate? And by 'opening statement', I mean exactly that: a paragraph (in the very least) that details ALL of the points you want to make in the course of debate.
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Usually, my e-mail service alerts me to when a reply has come in. For the last few posts, this has not been the case. Since I have a life that has nothing to do with this site, I haven't been responding.
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Bullshit. You are a liar and a fraud.
No one put a gun to your head, and told you that you had to respond to every post - that was your idea. You said that as long as someone was posting, you would keep answering.
But if you insist on ThenLeave answering your questions, then why don't you answer mine? Does your boss know of your plans to leave the nation? Yes or no?
Why don't you answer any of my questions or posts. (And an insult is not an answer - that just shows that your mind is not capable of anything but insults.) You have shown that you don't want to argue the points - you want to attack the messenger. And I've seen people like that before - we don't need you here. If you keep claiming that you are too busy, then go away, and don't come back.
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But every time I leave the site and come back after a while, I notice certain things. Like, the candidates list staying the same. Or the amount of money raised staying the same. And now, an administrator's note asking if it's worth it to keep the site going.
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The site found that the number of "verified" candidates kept going down - mostly because people like you were never serious about leaving. (And if you truly were serious about leaving America because you hate it........then why don't you leave? ThenLeave offered to help people leave - but there is no law whatsoever that says you cannot leave unless ThenLeave helps you.)
The "administrator's note" that you refer to was posted back in June........months before you came to ThenLeave, you idiot! One of your blogs claims that ThenLeave started to fold up after you decided to "tear us some new ones". Why don't you wake up, and look at the dates that things are posted before you make any claims about shutting us down?
I have been after ThenLeave, on and off, about updating the main site to reflect that we're mainly here for the chat - but do you know what? He has a real life that has nothing to do with this site. (Now where have I heard someone say something like that before????) So what I am hearing is this: It is OK for you to break promises that you made in writing just because you feel like it. But it is not OK for the site owner to live his life (he never promised to do otherwise) because you don't feel like allowing him to do so! Sounds really fair to me..................
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By the way: Thank you, Big Red, for pointing out Mr. Rosenberger's fanatical fervor in his line-by-line refutation of my post. Indeed, Rosenberger, I "got your goat" and put you on the defensive in a massive way... and all I had to do was post my thoughts. Maybe it was that line you posted at the end of every one of your posts, about defeating people with reason... maybe I took that to heart, and gave you a taste of your own medicine.
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I disagree, big time.
James Ledesma.......none of the liberals have ever gotten my goat. (Except for the pervert who raped some of my livestock..........was that you, James?) If you post a ton of false items - then I'll tend to post a ton of the truth. Don't lie, and I won't have to post the truth. Perhaps you were hoping that the site was already down.....and that you could look good on your own blog by feeding a bunch of lies with no one here to dispute with you. It must have been very disappointing to find that someone was actually here to dispute your claims. You are talking about me on your BLOG, and I am not talking about you on mine........so let's think about who is getting whose goat, shall we???????
You posted your thoughts, and I posted mine. You were wrong, and I was right - proven by the fact that you have not responded to the issues that I raised during my rebuttals. (If I was wrong......then why not correct me, rather than running away like a little baby!) Your words above were that my postings were a "line-by-line refutation" of your posts - and I thank you for that compliment - since "refutation" means "to prove wrong by argument or evidence : show to be false or erroneous".
Why would I be on the defensive in the first place, James? I'm posting my full name when I login. I'm not trying to hide behind an e-mail address name that tells no one who I am.......... If you are so darned proud of your own opinions, then why did someone else have to announce to the forum who you were? (My apologies to any allies who take this point personally.........but if you have nothing to fear within your ideas........you don't need a fancy login name.)
Where is BigRed now that you need him? He shot his mouth off once because someone dared to speak up for the site's owner - and then he disappeared again. Maybe he thinks that I might start listing his real name, address, etc.......and I'm thinking about it..........
As for my signature line - postings with "reason" is what Jim Lau is talking about. Not the easily refutable crap that you tend to specialize in.
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You have mentioned that your claims were all refuted (look it up in the dictionary), so why would I need to concede after you have admitted defeat?
You have not conceded formally.........and I guess that has something to say about how honorable you are, too!
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Yes, I would love to debate you and whomever feels the need to be debated. How about me vs. Rosenberger, Get Out, and everyone else who feels the need to defend this site against... little ol' me?
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"Little" is the word for it.
Why don't you start a new thread, and debate folks to your heart's content over there?
You have claimed on your BLOG that if that site goes down, that is ONE SMALL BUT IMPORTANT VICTORY for unpopular speech in this country. So perhaps someone should tell you that you are working against yourself. (Not very smart to do that......now is it?) I mean......you want this site to die - but you are offering to keep debates going to insure that it does not die. Are you thereby claiming to be "smarter" than us......while trying to help us keep the site going?
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Also: posting links is fine, but when am I going to get an opening statement from whomever wants to debate? And by 'opening statement', I mean exactly that: a paragraph (in the very least) that details ALL of the points you want to make in the course of debate.
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Why do any of us have to provide any points to debate? If you have something to say, then say it! Since you are not the owner of this site - then stop bossing people around.
Keep posting.........it helps this site survive!
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All I know is, when someone posts SIX replies to one post, in the span of two hours, then indeed my work is done.
Plus, those six replies were to a post that I had directed at Get Out.
You lose, buddy, no matter how you stack the cards.
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We have not lost here, even though you seem to be quite willing to accept some b.s. victory that has not been earned or achieved. This forum is alive and well, and will continue to function. If you are so intent to debate here, why don't YOU make an opening statement on any issue and show us that YOU have adequate knowledge to debate. I have read all your posts here, and all I see is that you are willing to post links, claim un-won victories, and argue with people about the way they answer posts. We have had plenty of people who have posted their comments about what they like or dislike about the website and the forum, and many have debated their points. Others, such as yourself so far, have come in, spewing their b.s. about how they don't like us and never actually get to a valid point, other than points that have already been made by others, particularily the liberal media (nbc, newsweek) So make your point, present an issue.
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All I know is, when someone posts SIX replies to one post, in the span of two hours, then indeed my work is done.
Plus, those six replies were to a post that I had directed at Get Out.
You lose, buddy, no matter how you stack the cards.
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All that I know is..........when I refute all of someone's points to an item, and they refuse to debate the item further - then they have not won.
Oh.......and if someone donates an incredible amount of space to my name in their on-line BLOG - and haven't even earned a mention on one of my sites........ then someone has gotten someone else's goat. Thanks for the ton of free publicity. I can now use your web site as an example of blatant discrimination against the handicapped. You don't lose very well, now, do you little boy?
Does your boss know that you spend company time on company machines to do your BLOG? (Thanks for confessing to that in writing, by the way. I look forward to talking to your boss about that.)
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Hey, I'm just here to help. Glad you appreciate the "publicity" you've been getting.
You know, that blog entry took me a whole ten minutes to write. I type fast, what can I say? As for space, I devote just as much of it to anything else that I find worth writing about. You should be flattered that I deemed it a sufficiently writable topic.
I defy you to find a disparaging remark about the handicapped in that entry. As far as I can tell, I mentioned that the character of "Don Rosenberger" was in a wheelchair. How is this making fun of the handicapped? To make fun of the handicapped, one has to make the affliction look ridiculous. All I did was describe a character, based on what I imagined the character to be like. By titling the entry "a little creative fiction", it is clear to anyone who reads it that the story is made up.
And you still haven't tried to make a point against MY debate topic, which was in regards to the $87 Billion from Congress. But I don't expect you to get back to that-- you're too busy trying to get me in trouble to actually follow your own rules. And that tells me that I got your goat metaphorically-- I don't know why you had the image of having sex with your livestock on your mind in the first place, unless my suspicions about you are true.
We can keep going back and forth over this until the metaphorical cows come in. "Are you gonna bark all day, little doggie, or are you gonna bite?"
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You have mentioned the 87 billion from congress, but have made no statements regarding your views, only links of what the liberal media thinks. What are your thoughts?? Who knows, maybe some of us will agree with you.
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I defy you to find a disparaging remark about the handicapped in that entry. As far as I can tell, I mentioned that the character of "Don Rosenberger" was in a wheelchair. How is this making fun of the handicapped? To make fun of the handicapped, one has to make the affliction look ridiculous. All I did was describe a character, based on what I imagined the character to be like. By titling the entry "a little creative fiction", it is clear to anyone who reads it that the story is made up.
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Copies have been made of entries here and on the BLOG. In both locations, you have accused me of committing illegal acts. (And on the other thread of this forum, you did absolutely nothing to say that it was "creative fiction".) So sedacious libel applies.
Why don't you make it possible for me to make entries to your BLOG, so that I can entertain you as much there as I do here? Or is it possible that you cannot tolerate anyone disagreeing with you at all?
And I don't have to find a "disparaging remark" on your site.........putz. Because everyone else that is involved with disability rights, and who sees your site, agrees with me. You cannot see it because you don't want to see it. It is not disparaging to you.......because you think it is the truth about disabled individuals. Show it to your boss, and ask him to login here, and send me a PM or e-mail about how nice it is.............
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I'm back again...
You need to bone up on your libel laws. You don't have a case. If you ever decided to do something as boneheaded and stupid as trying to file a libel case, suffice it to say that I have enough evidence-- on this very site-- of you doing the same to me, thus prompting a counter-suit.
However, no self-respecting judge in their right mind would hear a libel case based on blogs and message boards.
Just wanted to let you know that I haven't backed down-- I'm just doing what I've done since I found this place-- checking in occasionally, getting you mad, and laughing.
But just to show you that I'm not a monster, I sent a post to The Administrator, and he responded with a nice, decent reply. I fully expected that man to attack me-- after all, he started this site --but instead he showed that he was open-minded... unlike you, dear sir.
Anyway, I'll check back in two months and find three pages of replies from you, based on one or two sentences from me. And I'll laugh as I always do.
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Smcginty wrote:
You need to bone up on your libel laws. You don't have a case. If you ever decided to do something as boneheaded and stupid as trying to file a libel case, suffice it to say that I have enough evidence-- on this very site-- of you doing the same to me, thus prompting a counter-suit.
However, no self-respecting judge in their right mind would hear a libel case based on blogs and message boards.
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Fine. Then just keep doing what you are doing. Because it only makes my case stronger. The more you deny that you did anything wrong........the stronger the case that you have done this discrimination on purpose.
Name-calling is not a basis for a case - but you have accused me of breaking into and using one of your e-mail accounts. That is a crime - and accusing me of doing so when you know that I haven't is also a crime. If you doubt that, just ask one of the policemen at the precinct down the street............
If you would like to be in court, then that suits me fine. Please file first, if you want to. You mentioned that a judge would not listen to such a case - but you must first realize that thousands of dollars in legal fees would accumulate before either of us made it before a judge. And if you are curious......the answer is that I can easily afford that amount to make a case. Can you? You might wish to laugh at me later, and let your BLOG readers know about how much money you have cost me in court for my loss. But it will cost you money, too, buddy. And I think that the costs will hurt you a lot more than they will hurt me.
You also need to bone up on your legal studies. You see, part of what you have done is discrimination against the handicapped. And there is no statute of limitations upon those actions. So I don't have to come after you right now.......I can wait until later, and take whatever savings you have built up between now and then. If you think that you can beat the rap, then just keep discriminating! I encourage it! Maybe you can hire "Baghdad Bob" to be your defence counsel:
And you need to also bone up on your libel law, James. Personal opinion is not libel. But stating in writing that I have committed a crime (messing with your e-mail account) is libelous if I can prove that I did not do it.
(And if you are curious, we have already subpoenaed the records from hotmail.com for your logins from that period, and can show that the only IP addresses that accessed your accounts were close to you, and not close to me.)
You need to study your libel laws. Try looking at this site: Slander and Libel Laws
So I'm not going to spend a lot of time here arguing with you over whether you are guilty. Because you are guilty. Work hard, and save as much money as you can - the more, the better! I hope you'll get a big laugh out of losing your money.
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I'm also waiting to hear from your boss - so that we can talk about your openly discriminatory behavior on office equipment that he owns. Maybe it is time for me to hire a private investigator - and seek you and your boss out, personally. Then I don't have to worry about him looking for me.........because I'll be looking for him!
And as I said above - I don't have to do it now.....or next week......or even next year. Because there is no statute of limitations on your actions.
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It all boils down to one very simple thing: freedom of speech. In my blog, I explicitly stated that it was a work of fiction. Any resemblance to persons living or dead is purely coincidental. This is a point I make to everyone who reads my bog. I am not a journalist, and therefore have no obligation to report hard facts.
The administrator of a rock band's website once read my blog, which referenced their band. He/she liked my piece and wanted to reproduce it on their blog. I said "Sure, as long as you run a disclaimer stating that it is entertainment, and not journalism." They haven't reproduced my entry yet, and they probably never will. Maybe if I had not demanded a disclaimer they would have published it as "fact". The disclaimer saves people a lot of time and energy.
The fact is, if you don't like what I say in my blog, don't visit it. If you want to comment on my blog, go right ahead. If I want to write a fictional story about a person whose name can be found via a simple Google search, that is up to me.
As for accusing you of a crime: I put forth a theory based purely on speculation, in a fictional context. If you didn't do it, then there's no problem, right? Who on this message board would take my side over yours? What are you so worried about? If I'd thought you were the culprit, I would've already called the cops on you.
Sounds like a guilty conscience to me.
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